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So sorry to hear this kind of news. What a terrible ending to a marriage. You had to do what you needed to as you are the mother to those children and that can take precedent over your responsibility as a wife. Your children's and your own safety is a priority here and hopefully your husband can get the psychological help he needs at this difficult time. Seek out support groups while you can, you may need some help as well.
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You've got to do what you've got to do to protect your kids & self both mentally & physically.I commend you on your strength & courage. Good Luck.God Bless.
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You made the right decision.
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I feel for you, you are strong in making this decision and need to help yourself and your children, you can't do anything about your spouse. The days will be brighter ;0)
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Are they his children too? Though you no longer live with him (I assume that's what you mean when you said you left) I would hope that you don't leave his life entirely, same goes for the kids if they are his as well. You guys might be all he has left. And no one should have to die alone & unhappy. Good luck to you on figuring out what's best for you and your children
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terminally ill? he is dying? you left a man you were with for over ten years who is dying and you took his kids away? i'm not getting the whole story, why didn't you leave sooner?
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he is on dialysis and has been for about 5 years. The 2 kids are my kids and he is also very mean to them. One minute he is super nice and the next second he is enraged because someone didn't off a light or close a cabinet door. He basically wants me to be with him only and does not even want me to spend time with my kids
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I wouldn't recommend doing that. My dad almost did the same thing to my mom when me and my sister were young because of the same reason. Seek help. You could be losing a lot. It's an illness. It's not his fault.
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Your spouse has a serious mental health disorder. He needs to get help. He is probably not taking his med's properly, if at all. He sounds like he needs anger management classes too. He is also using his illness as a crutch for poor behavior. I commend you for leaving. I do not know how you put up with him for ten years. I am glad you did not wait until he hurt you or your children before leaving. I would advise against going back. If he does not leave you alone, then you may need to get a restraining order against him, as well. Don't be afraid to do so! You should not have to put up with such abuse from anyone. He is not responsible for his illness. He IS responsible for his recovery. He needs to decide for himself that he wants to get help. Until he does, all you and the kids can do is stay away. Best of luck to you and your children. Remember, you did the right thing. If you wish to, please post a comment on how things turn out.
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neutralize all threats. I do not care if they are a bipolar neglected abused child dieing of 6 different kinds of cancer... if they are somehow a threat they need to be neutralized. you effectively did this.
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