Hi, girls how should a boys/man approach you for sex and you say yes, guide boys/men.

Wow... that is a tough question... different girls will be turned on by different things and even the same girl will react differently in different situations.

The first piece of advice is be yourself. Most every girls wants to know you not some fasade...

Don't be too hungry... We can kinda sense when you are all about getting in our pants.

Make us feel special. However you do it, it will go along way towards making us more comfortable with you and that will lead to us wanting to do more with you. I don't mean shower us with gifts or stupid stuff like that but make us feel "wanted" and "interesting".

Patience. Don't expect sex instantly. It may happen it may not. Be patient.

I have done both. I have had sex with a guy I've only known 5 minutes and on the converse I have waited more than a few months to have sex with a guy I regularly date.

In the case of the 5 minute guy there was just something about him, something about my mood and the situation and it just happened...

I was actually giving him a ride home from a party last winter and it was snowing pretty bad and I embarrassingly enough got stuck in some snow that was deeper than I thought. I felt like an idiot and sat there spinning my rear wheels totally helpless and embarrassed and he just sat in the car telling me how hot I was and well it just happened. We did it right there in the car while I was stuck. We were on some back roads and there was no traffic.

On the few month guy I really liked him and he wasn't pushing. We did lots of heavy petting and fingering but neither of us needed the actual sex act. I mean I had hand jobbed him and stuff and he'd had his hands up my skirt lots... We just waited until the time was right. It was summer we had just come home from a kind of romantic movie we were laying about on the floor due to the heat. He shed his shirt and I said, not fair... I can't do that and he said, what's stopping you? So I shed my top... It didn't take long and we were nude and laying together then he sort of gently slipped it in and it was perfect.