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by Anonymous on January 16th, 2007

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GF and I broke up a month ago.We've been talking.Last night she asked me to marry her.She dated someone during the breakup.She said it was nothing.I don't know if I can be with her if she slept with him.Should I ask?Should I care?I really do love her,BUT!

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  • by Valparaiso on March 20th, 2007

    Valparaiso

    Have you ever had sex with anyone else but her? If you have then you have no right to complain about her sleeping with him.

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  • by suppcutieeeee on January 20th, 2007

    suppcutieeeee

    I think you should ask her if she did. I gone through this too. It kills to know that they had sex, but it hurts more if you never ask because you're always gonna be thinking if she did it or not so confront her about it and then if she says she did then idk. I mean like when my bf told me he had a son i was like.....ahhh slkjfsa but over time you get over stuff like that you know? cuz like she only had one time with that boy and she'll have forever with you.
    :D so go for it.

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  • by littl_foggy on January 16th, 2007

    littl_foggy

    if it will bug you then ask.
    if her answer bugs you it will never work.
    sorry!

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  • by PeteO1970 on July 9th, 2009

    PeteO1970

    No offense but that chick sounds like a psycho nut-job with some issues she needs to work out.
    My advise: run like hell! LOL

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  • by miss piggy on May 21st, 2008

    miss piggy

    you know somethink?
    dont do it..
    you will regret it after & is shame to waste ur time on things like that!!
    there are better girls out there that will never do what she did to you....
    you have to find the ''perfect for you''

    :)

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  • by Anonymous on March 20th, 2007

    Anonymous

    It is obviously on your mind. It seems from your question that you are best knowing and moving on (meaning moving beyond the situation and continuing the relationship). If you cannot move on then the relationship will not work. Only you can know if you can live with it.

    I am going through a very similar situation minus the marriage proposal and I have had a difficult time wading through all the emotions that come with something like this. No matter what anyone else says, this is not easy.

    Take your time and make the right decision for you.

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  • by Aelfward on January 16th, 2007

    Aelfward

    Since it bothers you: Ask. Its better to find out now if you can't live with something she may have done than after marriage.

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  • by Anonymous on July 26th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Your gf didn't do anything wrong. You broke up with her, so she dated someone else. It's not as if she was unfaithful. It could be that she still cared about you and he was just a rebound guy (which is why she said it was nothing). Talk to her more about why she wants to get married, but you should date for a while longer before you marry, because it sounds like you need more time to work on relationship issues and complete the task of reconciliation.

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  • by ronny on July 26th, 2009

    ronny

    do not marry her you need a lot more time.ofcorse you should care .but if she slept with someone else she is NOT ready for marriage

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  • by Anonymous on June 15th, 2009

    Anonymous

    you should probably talk to her about this guy. see how she feels about him. if you truly love her, it's worth a shot. if it doesn't work out, at least you tried.

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  • by bubbles on April 7th, 2009

    bubbles

    ask her. he may have just been a rebound guy. you'll never know until you ask!

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  • by jennybabes44 on July 9th, 2009

    jennybabes44

    DO NOT get married just yet. You both need to get back together and air things. Me and my boyfriend split up and he kissed a girl and chatted to girls on the net. I slept with three guys. It has honestly taken a lot for us to get over this but you have to think to yourself, she wants to be with you, nobody else. Sometimes a girl needs to feel wanted by somebody and it doesnt matter who. Those guys I met meant Sweet FA to me! good luck xx

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  • by Naia the Bee on July 9th, 2009

    Naia the Bee

    Talk about it. But honestly, life is too short to worry about what happened while you were not together. Just put everything out there... especially what you want out of your relationship and if you want to go the distance.

    I recommend couples counseling as well. People usually shy away from this but it can do you some good. You can address many issue you wouldn't even think during counseling. And this DOES NOT mean there is something wrong. My partner and I did this and I can say that is solidified and strengthen our relationship.

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on July 9th, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    you should wait. What is the rush? If you love her, then time will tell.

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  • by mubashira on April 4th, 2009

    mubashira

    y do u feel like asking her out.... what wud you like to have sex or love.... u love her naa u said tht then y to make her feel u simply cant trust her or her feelings for her... so acc to me just be with her trust her and trust me one day she l tell you

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