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by donnaf on January 5th, 2009

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Like many women, I love being spanked by a man. It's my fetish. But does anyone else only like it over jeans and with just a hand? I can't get pleasure when it's too painful on the bare butt, and I can't imagine either one of us liking it when I cry.

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  • by nickie on January 9th, 2009

    nickie

    I have never really been spanked, but fantasize about it all the time. I would like it over the knee though and I think on the bare butt.....It would be great to feel the smacks.....

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  • by That Guy Again on January 8th, 2009

    That Guy Again

    There are many different ways to spank, some like it just for play such as erotic or sensual spanking. Some like it for light D/s aspects and of course like any other form of BDSM play it can run to extremes such as severe canings that leave wicked welts and even bleeding.

    Some couples like role play such as Boss-secretary, Teacher-student or "You overdrew the checking account and this will teach you a lesson" stuff.

    Some women (and some men) like real punishment spankings and choose to give up control to various levels and want to be held accountable by their partner for certain actions such as attitude, respect and responsibility (Domestic Discipline).

    In any event not everyone wants to, and in fact not everyone can cry. From pain only sometimes some people can cry. But for an emotional release some need to feel real remorse and that may require the spanker to use proper scolding before (corner time) and durring a punishment spanking. Some crave spanking way past tears to complete submission and want to be taken to "sub-space".

    It's unique for every couple and your mileage may vary.

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  • by Freedom00 on January 7th, 2009

    Freedom00

    There are many people who enjoy spanking. Each person who has a spanking fetish also has his/her own tolerance for pain.

    Not everyone likes to be spanked until s/he cries. Many people prefer just a couple of light swats before love making. For many, too much pain can spoil everything that feels good about a spanking.

    Even though you only enjoy a light spanking it is good to have a safety word anyway. Make sure your man knows the amount of pain you wish to receive as well.

    Good luck. Lay across your man's knee or face down on a bed and enjoy yourself. Please stay safe.

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  • by ilovesex12345 on April 24th, 2010

    ilovesex12345

    I don't know how you say you have a spanking fetish if youu dont like it bare bottom.

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  • by Rickie4 on March 13th, 2009

    Rickie4

    I think it is entirely upto you as an individual - we are all different. I for one happen to prefer spanking women bending over in jeans or tight trousers. Tight trousers tend to enhance the shape of the female bottom and I like to hear the crisp smack when hand meets taught material. Others only like spanking on the bare. No one is right and no one is wrong

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  • by noodle on March 10th, 2009

    noodle

    I think you should do what you are both comfortable with. Everyone is an indivual and has unique wants when being spanked. I like my Wife to cane me although she is not keen and worries it is hurting me too much although I always tell her that I would ask her to stop if it was too painful. Although not keen she is now fairly accepting of the fact I need to be punished.

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  • by Rickster is victorious on January 9th, 2009

    Rickster is victorious

    You're on

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  • by Stillme FBB on January 5th, 2009

    Stillme FBB

    I don't like it at all.

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  • by Badlady on February 23rd, 2012

    Badlady

    Well I was spanked by my ex-husband and I didn't like it one little bit.

    Having me across his knee with my dress up, and my black knickers around my knees and my stockings and suspenders on show was obviously a turn-on for him. But I hated it.

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  • by rickhubble on October 10th, 2010

    rickhubble

    I agree that an experienced disciplinarian is the best way to learn what tolerances you have and what type of spanking will best satisfy your needs. Bare bottom is safer in that it allows the person giving the spanking to inspect the damage he is doing and stop before hurting you. A good paddling over jeans could cause some real long lasting damage if done long enough and hard enough.

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  • by reallygoodguy on July 10th, 2010

    reallygoodguy

    I'd love to do it to you and would be painful as not into hurting anyone. Bare bottom would be nicer, more erotic and hopefully get your senses running wild.

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  • by rebellious angel on February 27th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    I like it in jeans and bare both lol but either way, he uses his hand. I love his hand smacking my ass cuz I've been a bad little dirty girl

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  • by rebellious angel on March 11th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    I like it jeans or bare, but always with just his hand and he stops when I tell him to

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  • by Rachel5523 on January 22nd, 2012

    Rachel5523

    I don't love the sting or the pain of being spanked, but when my stress builds up, usually right before my time of the month, my husband knows that I need a good spanking and he doesn't hesitate to put me over his knee. He always spanks me with his open hand where I'm bare butt and just enough to redden my bottom. After I start crying, mostly from the humiliation, for some reason I feel so much better. It's like the tension has broken and I feel so much better as he wipes my tears away and makes love to me, which by the way is always tremendous after a good spanking.

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  • by Omgitsfriday on August 1st, 2011

    Omgitsfriday

    I like spanking and getting fucked hard.

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  • by Moongrim on January 5th, 2009

    Moongrim

    Then may I suggest that you two go to BDSM master and learn how to spank properly.

    It's a refined art, and one doesn't necessarily need to start whaling away like a madman.

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