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by Phil Osofize on December 30th, 2008
This really is a question you must ask your significant other. However, ask yourself this, why do you watch porn if you have the real thing right there next to you? If you answer is just that you like watching it, then there might be something deeper you need to deal with. If your answer is that it helps improve your sexual relationship, then you might want to see why? Porn can be dismissed as simple fantasies like any movie, or it can be a sign of something deeper. If you choose porn over your significant other, then you might really have an issue; either with porn or your other.
by Timmeh on December 30th, 2008
I've had different answers from different women that
I've dated. Some will say absolutely! and some will say Not at all! and the few % will watch it with you.
You just have to get to know your g/f or wife's perspective. Maybe just ask her? I don't think a woman would be all that mad at you for asking their opinion before you might do something wrong in her eyes. Good Luck!
by Jane on December 30th, 2008
if it is then i'm in big trouble....
by ladyshakespeare on December 31st, 2008
no, not cheating, but it is very hurtful to the vast majority of women. it is also problematic in the relationship when the man views degrading and abusive behavior and then wants to recreate it on his women, who may not want to subject herself to certain things. Also, it gives en extremely false idea that all women are bisexual which is soooooooo far from correct.
by starrrgazer on December 31st, 2008
For me, yes. I have some very specific and good reasons for that. It isn't so for each person. It depends on the person whether it is or not.
by Pleasureman69 wears a COAT of friendship on December 30th, 2008
Soda, why do you have to ask such complicated questions? :- ) My thoughts; if any partnered person (M/F) is watching porn to the exclusion of their partner then it is wrong, and I can see here on AB how some males are "secretly" heavy into prom, causing the woman in their lives a great deal of pain. If there is to be porn in a relationship, let it be in the open and hopefully for mutual erotic enjoyment. We do some porn, we mutually masterbate, we have erotic fun together. Enjoy!
by Ice man on December 30th, 2008
No, I don't think watching it is. To me cheating is physically participating in sex with another person. There's a big difference and I don't understand why some people view it as cheating.
by sophs on December 30th, 2008
Im a woman, and i wouldnt say its cheating at all, however i havnt been in that position with a guy...i guess i might feel inadequate, but then again, i dont know how he would feel if he caught me!!
by stuart on January 24th, 2009
No. If it was 90% of the male population would be cheating and probably 40% of the female population. Sexual stimulus is not cheating at all
by anonymous on January 9th, 2009
Personally, I don't think so.
It's just entertainment. A fantasy. Like how people get sex fantasies in their head, but that's not wrong. Neither is watching sex on a screen.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on December 31st, 2008
no, inapropriate but not cheating
by shortyburb on December 31st, 2008
NO!! I dont know what he would do without it LOL
by Ganja_Goddess on December 30th, 2008
I don't think so! I think if the person I was with was more interested in the porno than me then I might consider changing my answer but it's basically just a fantasy that has been filmed right?
by Little Devil the Pumpkin King on December 30th, 2008
No under the same logic just seeing someone kiss would be cheating
by Robertd903 on September 21st, 2009
...is watching the FOOD NETWORK---considered breaking a DIET??
by Ocean Flower on September 21st, 2009
No I dont think its cheating...but I believe it can lead to cheating...At uni a lecturer told us a story about a researcher who got a group of people to look at porn (in private) and asked them a set of questions...he discovered that while these people where horny on porn they were more likely to cheat, rape or do things they wouldnt normally do while they werent 'getting off' on porn...it may not effect everyone the same way.
by farseer on September 16th, 2009
if so then virtually every human being is guilty of cheating
by Anonymous on April 11th, 2009
Definitely not.
by flowersandthings on February 9th, 2009
I think it is a form of cheating yes. Imagine if your girl was checking out other guys and pleasuring herself to them. as if she didnt have you to satisfy her. It just lowers your self esteem.
by ALM4 on December 31st, 2008
no, not at all
by Breakfast on December 30th, 2008
Also... what better way to learn new tricks than to learn from the pro's eh?
by Breakfast on December 30th, 2008
I don't think it's cheating. When she goes to sleep and I want it but I'm not going to wake my girl up, well I whip out the ol laptop and look for things that might be worth watching. Of course, half the time she's only acting like she's asleep and secretly watching me do it. So.. I'm watching porn on the computer and she's watching porn in person. =D
by Lainwood on December 30th, 2008
I don't think it is in the slightest. Nor does my g/f so it works.
by Anonymous on November 13th, 2009
Porn is cheating in the same way that looking at pictures on Facebook is cheating. It doesn't mean anything.
by LuLu on September 21st, 2009
Not at all! I would watch porn with him if I were you. It will spice up your sex life. I was a porn phobic and I would get upset when my man would watch it but one day I started watching porn with him and ever since then our sex life has picked up quite a bit. Honestly, we as women don't want to be cheated on and wonder why some of these men cheat on us. I'll tell you why because you get some of these women who act holyier than thou and heaven forbid they see porn or get wild in the bedroom. What you won't do another woman will do gladly. Remember that!
by La CaBrOnA on September 21st, 2009
No......but some women don't like their men watching it it makes them uncomfortable....
by Anonymous on September 21st, 2009
I believe it is cheating...you are looking at other women or men for sexual purposes! Just my opinion though!
by anonymous on September 21st, 2009
No, no more than a partner having a secret crush on someone else and secretly wanting them, or an online crush thing (you know emotional). They are not being physical so I guess it's not cheating.
by Anonymous on September 21st, 2009
YES. If you love your woman, she should be the only one you want to look at and the only one you want to arouse you.
by nikki 2state on September 16th, 2009
NO NOT AT ALL, IT JUST TO WARM UP OUR SEX LIFE.
by xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx on September 16th, 2009
No it is not cheating if you do not react or compare with others .
by Disko Fari on January 24th, 2009
i'd say depends on what is entented..
by Colt COAT of Justice on December 30th, 2008
No!
by Discipline on December 30th, 2008
No
by SnortingMercury enjoys New panties on December 30th, 2008
You're only cheating YOURSELF if you DON'T watch it!!! >:)
by CoRoNa_ChiCK ILOVEMYH@TERS on December 30th, 2008
Not at all!!!!
by Cyanotic Wasp on December 30th, 2008
It depends. What is it watching?
I've sent my boyfriend x-rated pic of me,are there web sites he can post them on? Wouldn't that be illegal without my knowledge?
by betrayed1 on December 16th, 2011
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My boyfriend watches porn,sends and receives pics and video but I've totally lost any sexual attraction to him because of it. What to do?
by Tmarie27 on November 12th, 2011
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Do women feel intimidated by guys watching porn?
by RCLAY on November 10th, 2011
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A Catholic Church owned publisher is reportedly selling Porn Novels. Does this surprise you?
by calicorey on November 6th, 2011
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Do you agree that all forms of nudity and seminudity (except for the shower and the doctor's office) sexually liberate an individual?
by Flipper on November 18th, 2011
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you have a point. +6
by Sodapop on December 30th, 2008