I can't stop obsessing over my ex and his new girlfriend. i stalk them both on facebook constantly. i have a busy life, but even after a night out i come home and the 1st thing i do is log on. dont wanna cancel acct, but how do i stop? it's killing me
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Simple, block them both on facebook so you can't stock them even if you wanted to.
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Cancel the account. Save your pictures and keep in touch with your friends over myspace or bebo. It'll free you, where as if you block them you can still see their profiles they just cant see yours... Do you really wanna spend anymore time obsessing over this? Didnt think so take back your power, cancel the account and get on with your life, you're only hurting yourself after all.
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lol.....I know who this is!!!!!! Im glad you finally decided to join me here on answerbag!
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Block them both. If you block them, most of your ties will be cut from them. You are torturing yourself for no reason. Quit feeding yourself that poison. It's not healthy.
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It is always hard to let go of something that was valuable to you. But change is the one constant on which we can all rely. You have changed and so has your ex. Look how lucky you are that you don't have a relationship with someone who is no longer interested in you. Try focusing on the many positives in your life. You can't change what happened in the past but you can change how you view the past. So focus on your future and re-frame your thinking about the past. Easy to say, I know, but work on it and count your many blessings for being free from the ex (who probably wasn't that great anyway).
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It's natural to feel that way a bit after a break up. You are hurt and the thought of them probably just kills you inside. You obviously still care, while he has moved on. This is just a bad phase. Like everyone else says, put yourself in a position where you can't contact or see them if possible. Over time, the feeling of following or wanting to know what they are doing will fade. Just try to keep busy. I guarantee that in a few months you will be feeling better.
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Cancel the account until you feel strong enough to avoid doing this. Facebook can inspire some unhealthy habits.
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Block them. Then use your energy to do something positive for other people. Make a cake for a friend or neighbour, invite someone round for supper, knit a warm scarf for charity, volunteer to work evenings at your local theatre or hospice etc., In other words, stop tinking about yourself - 'cos, it is yourself and not them that you're thinking about. Your hurt feelings, your anger, pain and resentemnt, your jealousy etc., You are worth more than this as your life is filled with things and people yuou don't know yet, it's out there wiating just for YOU. Please, let this year go and have a Happy New Year! Without your obsession. lol x
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Delete them as friends on Facebook, and block them. Come to terms with your life and realize that you could be using your focus to find a new boyfriend who you can spend all of your time with, and let your ex become a part of your past.
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Move on and get over it! Its not worth it
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Yeah I agree , you are wating your time sweetie.,,, he dont want you.... its not w o r t h It,,,,
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you are sad
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I know it's hard . i'm going thru the same thing . a breakup is like a death , sometimes worse . because when someone dies , it's a permanent thing . but when it's a breakup , you're always wondering what he or she may be thinking about, doing. whatever . it hurts like a bi--h. but i have found it's a lil easier now after 7 months . but i still have some hard days at times. hopefully that will fade. but this is the hardest thing iv'e ever been thru . so i know where you are at . you'll get thru it. just know , there's others going thru this also. including myself. we'll get thru it . hang in there .
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It's a really hard and hurtful process, but just force yourself not to, think about all the positive things you have in life, friends, family, pets, good looks, whatever you want. But as hard as it is just try not to think about it put your mind onto something else likea hobby or learning an instrument trust me it works (: and ice cream helps so much Ben & Jerrys <3
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