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  • It could be possible that she is bi. Maybe there is something missing that she likes in the lesbian stories. So far she's not cheating, or at least that is what it sounds like. Have you tried role-play in the bedroom, or other ways of spicing things up? I wouldn't come right out and say "I found out you've been looking at lesbian erotica online." Maybe ask her what her fantasies are. There is nothing wrong with exploring the imagination. I've read all kinds of erotica, lesbian, straight, fetish, but I still love the person I'm with. They could be nothing but mere fantasies. If it were me I'd try to bring them into the bedroom. Not sure how much of a help I've been but that's my two cents.
  • It may be that she is gay or bi. However, don't discount her having a sexual addiction. Replacing sex with your spouse with whatever your addiction is is one of the signs of a sexual addiction. It doesn't have to be visual in order to be an addiction. Women are often more turned on with stories than pictures. Just a thought...
  • I don't think she is bi or lesbian. She is just distracted and bored...probably not with you but with life in general. She is looking for THE GOOD FEELING the rush of adrenaline and lust. It feels good to be exited ...right. You need to pamper her some more..and talk to her about this. Communication is so important in any relationship. I am not gay in any way or form and I can get really turned on by watching a naked female body...not because of the fact that its a woman but because I know AS a Woman that our body's are so sensitive. Anyway..I would not jump to any conclusions without talking to her first If I where you.
  • it doesn't interest me at all. she might be bi or maybe really bored with the marriage.
  • Why don't you troll for some of those stories, too, and print out a couple. Some night when you're both in bed together, just start reading to her. Or let her read while you do some role-playing or something. Heck, you've got an imagination; use your own!
  • She's probably just enjoying fantasizing. Fantasy is an important part of sexuality. More important, have you talked together about her fantasy and yours? It's a talk that can re-ignite some spark, and bring you closer together.

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