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by kyliee18 on January 12th, 2007

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My boyfriend and I have been together for just over two years now, but we never have sex anymore, its not my problem i'm always up for it but he never seems to want it. on average we will do it about once a month, what does this mean for our relationship?

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  • by Little Miss Dangerous on January 13th, 2007

    Little Miss Dangerous

    Has anything changed with either of you physically? If either of you have put on or taken off weight it can easily affect your sex life. Other changes, like depression, chronic pain or tiredness can also put on the breaks. Before you can fix the problem, you need to determine what caused it. Talk to your guy and see if you can determine the cause. Two years is way too soon for things to slow to once a month!

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  • by marisol guerva on January 13th, 2007

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    I agree with littlemissdangerous. while it is normal for desire to lesson over time, two years and once a month is not good. depression, weight gain, unemployment, things of this nature will effect every aspect of your relationship. I am sorry to ask, but have you considered the fact that he may be having sex with someone else? look into this. Is he sexual at all or just not into sex with you?
    try different things inside and outside the bedroom. Different activity together, take him out to dinner somewhere new, go for drinks, buy some new undies and bra (so you feel good) or get your hair done. To reignite that flame, you must first toy with the embers.

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  • by cami1211 on January 12th, 2007

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    well it is normal when you have been in a relationship for a while for the sex drive to lessen, trying something different and maybe you need to initialize it more and really tell him you want him insted of like most women just hint to it.. You have to put more and more effort into your sex life the longer you are together, thats just how it is.
    It happens to every relationship you just have to try a little harder now, turn him on and tell him straight out what you want to do to him, that might get his attention..

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  • by JohnnyBones on January 12th, 2007

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    Well he might be too used to you, try doing some new stuff(not sexual) in your life that effects him a little. New things that may not be a normal characteristic of you. Then he might deem you as "new material" and show some curious intrest. Remember, this ain't gossple, its just a sugestion, so good luck!

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  • by Rhonda on March 18th, 2008

    Rhonda

    I have heard that men lose sex drives as easily as women do. Sometimes it just does not seem as important of an issue. If you haven't voiced your concern you should - because a healthy intimate relationship is very important. If you need to, spice things up by reading each other Penthouse Letters or buy some sexy lingerie so that he has no choice but to make love to you. If he doesn't go for that, then you may need to decide if there is something else going on outside of your relationship that you don't know about. You may not realize it, but he could be getting it from somewhere else.

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  • by Gen.ButtNaked on February 24th, 2010

    Gen.ButtNaked

    WOW, that is unusual, but I would say he is has another girl, impotent, or gay, quite possibly just not that interested any longer!!! Did you gain weight, did he gain weight, those could possible factors also!!!!

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  • by shelly on May 24th, 2007

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    I agree try something new, if your willing to try new things ask him if another women can join in. Sometimes this can get boyz more interested !

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  • by nycboy on September 18th, 2007

    nycboy

    If you did get fat , he wont tell you, or hurt your feelings. Put you hands on him to show what you want. He will appreciate that. He may be also getting it some where else because he is board with you. Check his cell phone.

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  • by fred2964 on January 4th, 2010

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    http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1879568

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