Hello. I want to ask one question about weird cases. I’m 18 and when I was at school in May this year (2008) I was in year 12. The friends I knew were year 11 (16 yrs olds). Once I was walking around and I saw one girl that I knew and she was sitting with other 3-4. Then I went there and became friends with the other 3. 2 days later I saw that one of the girls has a social page. I added her as friend and she accepted me. About 1 day later she added me to her top friends. I then thought that she really likes me as a person/friend. I then added a thankful comment to her page like this “thanks for adding me to your top”, and then I added her to my top too. I asked her does she have messenger. She gave me her msger. So – I began to chat with her. I began to get to know each other more. About 2 days later – as she was in my school I decided to ask her if we can meet up somewhere. I said that it can be me and her or with her other friends. She said that this would be ‘cool’. Looking at the chat history the current day I was writing with this with her was Tuesday. We planned for Saturday. When we approached Saturday (it was Friday) she said that she has exams and that she can’t for Saturday. I said alright and would it be good for Sunday. She after that said that she is grounded. Here I was suspecting that she’s lying. I think that from here something is already going on wrong. Indeed it was: Few days later I asked what day it could be possible for rendezvous and then she said that this is not a good idea to do this. She told me that she heard something wrong about me from her friends. 20 minutes later she adds her friend (L.) to the conversation. She as normal says ‘hi’ etc. The other one (Olivia) says that we shouldn’t go out. The other one asks why and Liv says that she heard sh_t about me. Of course the new one (L.) hasn’t heard anything bad about me which was good. After few minutes, Liv says that we can meet up on the next day with me and them both. Indeed this happened, but not sure, but the main reason of this rendezvous was probably just to buy them cigarettes as after I bought that we talked about another 10-15mins and they had to go. Here I suspected that she (Liv) used the chance that I’m 18 and I can buy those things. Now the 2nd part. She had another 2 friends. One was B., other was Lea. B. used to talk to be and was very nice to me. We even made a rendezvous with her and her friends. The weird is that when 1st I asked Liv for a normal rendezvous Lea stopped talking to me (not completely). Here I suspect that Liv has told her something wrong about me and Lea believed this. A month later B. stopped talking to me completely, like she was ignoring me. She stopped replying to answer my mails, comments etc. This was very strange to me, never happened before. I never insulted her, never offended her, I was always nice to her. Later on when I saw Lea few times, she began to talk to me again. About 2 months later they (L. and Liv) invited me to a dinner. But because I didn’t want to eat much, I was eating very slowly, as twice as slow as them. They weren’t happy with this and I said I was sorry for my slow eating, I wasn’t feeling alright. They said it was alright. After this when I got home I went on my Windows Live messenger and them 2 too (Liv was sleeping around L’s house. When I was on the Live, they asked me to put on my camera. They turned on their camera too. (((Because it didn’t work, I put on Skype and it worked))). They began to ask me to show off and take off my clothes and stuff like that. They were very seductive in that moment as they were talking to me like girlfriends and boyfriends. Liv was very nice when she was with her friend, but normal or even nasty when she was talking with me tête-à-tête. Part 3. Later on I discovered her other friends began to completely ignore me too. Now the main thing is WHY is this happening, where is the problem, who is right, who wrong. This also never happened to other people, so this is like an anomaly to me. Maybe it was because she got stressed because I asked to meet up with her? Maybe it was because she really heard something bad about me, which I didn’t do anything wrong? Thank you.

Well I say, move on. These friends are not helping to make your life fun, there are more people out there. Be cool. Be confident.

Just avoid people like that. Some people are completely two-faced, but most people can't see it apart from those who get the wrong end of it.