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by Nick on January 12th, 2007

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Im 15, and im having a hard time trusting my girlfriend beacause of a previouse relationship, how do i learn to trust her because i realy love this new girl and i never want to leave her....thats why im scared.

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  • by Anonymous on January 12th, 2007

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    Dude, listen up here. My father tried telling me this a few times when I was your age but every time I heard him I could not understand what he was saying. Many, many years have passed and now I when I have kids of my own I realize how true his wisdom was.

    You are 15 years old. There will be many relationships in your life. May be 10. May be 15. May be 50. Girls will come and go. There will be times when someone will leave you and and times when you will leave someone. That's the way things work. That's life and everybody goes through it. You will learn something new about life have a relationship. So just go out there, enjoy yourself, talk to that girl, take her out to movies or whatever. You have to trust people. If she is giving you reasons not to trust her and you have a gut feeling she can not be trusted then move on, find somebody else.

    And, at least for now, drop that "I never want to leave her" part. Women like strong men. They like those who can stand up for themselves. This means that they like those men who can dump them and find somebody new. That does not mean that you can be abusive and disrespectful. All that means is that should be strong emotinally. And you are strong when you know that you can leave that i-never-want-to-leave-her and find somebody else.

    Good luck!

    And most importanly, have fun, kid!

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  • by Vantenkeist on January 12th, 2007

    Vantenkeist

    I heard a song once that went: "Hang on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly, you're gonna lose control."

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  • by LindaLis on March 4th, 2009

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    Youre young and stupid.

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  • by calvin69 on February 1st, 2007

    calvin69

    ask one of ure friends hu she duznt to try and get with her and see wat happens if she loves you this will work

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  • by Ms.A on March 4th, 2009

    Ms.A

    Maybe you need to take a break from girls,take some time to figure out that everyone is different,people aren't perfect and that trust has to be earned.

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  • by Eagle2 on February 2nd, 2007

    Eagle2

    im going through a similar thing - just keep your cool and do little tests to see you can trust her. something like saying could you please wait here i need to go get something and hide so she cant see you and wait for ten minutes then go back. If she has left im sorry but shes not for you.

    But im not going out with my perswon yet so i still need to get her but for you just keep your cool and dont make her find you boring try talking about interesting stuff but dont talk about yourself all the time and try your best to listen and give your point of view in a posotive way when she makes conversation trust me it should help!!

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  • by I Lost My Marbles on March 4th, 2009

    I Lost My Marbles

    Knowledge about girls comes through experience.
    The thing I want you to remember, is that every girl is different and no two are completely alike. If one totally screws you over, it doesn't mean the next one will. When you've tested the water and dated more than a few girls, you will recognize just how true that is.
    Take your time and have fun.
    When you choose to date someone, you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position. When you fully give your heart to another person, it isn't always a guarantee that they will do what is right. It is a risk that is totally worth taking, you just have to learn how to pick someone who is worth giving it to. That isn't always easy, and it can hurt pretty bad when you're wrong. That's why its always best to take it slow. It gives you time to truly learn about the person that you're with. You get a chance to build and develop a great relationship bond with that person. It also gives you the opportunity to recognize whether or not that person is the right person for you. When you dive right in, without first testing the water, you get in the most trouble.
    Just take your time. Get to know this girl for who she is. Remember that she is a "new" person. And if it doesn't work out, move on to some one else. Always remember the fact that the new girls aren't like the last girl you were with, and keep it that way.
    Girls like dependable guys who will show them love, listen to them and also respect them.
    Just be you.

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