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by no one on January 12th, 2007

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My b/f of more than 3 yrs left me for another girl, but their relationship only lasted 2 weeks. He has been calling and apologizing and trying to make up for everything. I believe in rebuilding trust and still deeply love him, should I get back with him?

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on January 21st, 2007

    JUSTNORMAL

    The ultimate decision is up to you. However reading your other questions about him, and his cheating and bad behavior, I would say no, take your time to find someone that loves and respects you

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  • by justme32 loves the weekends on January 12th, 2007

    justme32 loves the weekends

    That is a question best answered by you. If you still love him that deeply and you want to give him another chance you should do what your heart tells you to.

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  • by Theby on November 27th, 2008

    Theby

    Bye bye, boyfriend.

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  • by Ms.A on November 27th, 2008

    Ms.A

    If I were you,I wouldn't get back with him.

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  • by happiness on November 27th, 2008

    happiness

    No, he'll do that again sometime soon, knowing that you will accept him back.

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  • by LaLaLOvE on November 27th, 2008

    LaLaLOvE

    I think that u should forget about him and get on with life because if he broke up with u he'll do it again!
    BUT....................if u still LOvE no ones going stop i mean i want everyone to be happy so yes u can get back with him but don't trust him.

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  • by Jane on November 27th, 2008

    Jane

    no but you will so good luck

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  • by Cookie on November 27th, 2008

    Cookie

    I dont think you should jump back in a relationship with him and forgive him so easily.

    I know that you have to be heart-broken and that you would want to get back in a relationship with him what female that was in a long term relationship and is still deeply in love wouldn't. But from woman to woman you should make him suffer and play hard to get, flirt but make him earn being back in your life because leaving someone you love for soneone you like is a idiotic move

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  • by BLynn4487 on January 21st, 2007

    BLynn4487

    Assuming he didn't cheat on you with this girl (he ended your relationship before anything happened with her), that says a lot of (good) things about his character. It means he cared enough about you to be honest (even at the cost of causing you pain).

    As far as you taking him back, the answer lies in you. Providing you can both be honest with each other and your feelings for each other, you definately have a shot. You've acknowledged that you will need to rebuild trust with each other. If you can get past him leaving you for another girl (and truly forgive him), I say go for it. Just don't throw his decisions back in his face every time you may have an argument.

    Best of luck!

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  • by suppcutieeeee on January 20th, 2007

    suppcutieeeee

    deffinitely. a 2 week fling isnt anything to fret about. everyone needs a break sometimes when theyre longly commited to eachother. trust me i'm in this too. every once in awhile you always want to wonder outside the relationship but then you realize that's the best person you could ever be with so yes get back with him because he's telling the truth.

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  • by staffie on January 21st, 2007

    staffie

    he could have been feeling trapped if you are only young and then realised he had made a mistake, everybody deserves a second chance so i think you should give it another go. 3yrs is a lot to throw away especially if you still love each other. have a chat and see where you go from here. good luck

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  • by mandame187a on April 16th, 2007

    mandame187a

    Don't do it! If a man will hurt you once, he'll def do it again. I know from experience. I did it time and again and now I'm plotting how to get out since it turned violent. That's a sign of his abusive of you and your submissiveness... make your life your own. Being single is so much more fun!

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  • by QUEEN_D on February 20th, 2008

    QUEEN_D

    i believe in giving people second chances maybe now he realize what he had my situaation is a little similar me and my first being going together for a year and we broke a few times but we made up and oone day we got back together and two days later he called me and told me he had someone new and now he feels bad and knows h made a mistake and now its been two months and he wants to come back some say i should take him back some say kno but its up to you if u really love him or care 4 him and still want to be with him then maybe u can work somethin out everyone makes mistake think about it dont worry about what people going to say talkin to him about

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  • by Anonymous on January 12th, 2007

    Anonymous

    to me yes i would take (s)he back. Sometimes you need space. If he did it again i would not take him back. But you have to think you;ll be thinking wil he cheat on me again when your not around.

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