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  • No. Thats just a little too close.
  • sleep with as in have sex with? hell no, and I will follow up with: WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU THINKING?
  • Sure. Sleeping is okay. If you mean sex- no.Gentically speaking you have a pretty good chance at malformations or mental disorders. Morally, for me, they are family, and sexing with family is gross.BTW- sex is not a casual relationship.
  • if you mean have sex thats incest you have in mind.. but if you mean just sleep in one bed all night till you wake up, depends if you feel comfortable doing it, eitherwise you can sleep on the floor :p
  • I did it, I don't if it ok but it had no implications in my life.
  • Might not be a good idea to start a regular basis type relationship, or ever have children, and I'm not saying I would ever sleep with any of my cousins, but once does'nt do any particular harm, so long as a pregnancy does'nt occur from it. So my advice would be, if you've already done it, don't beat yourself up over it, if you're considering doing it, just take into mind what kind of problems, social and possibly tangible, this momentary lapse in judgement may cause later.
  • its not allowed in my religion to marry my cousins and have never been in situation where i have had a crush on my cousins all my cousins are my brothers and sisters i was just wondering about peoples Opinions are cos a lot of people at work seem to think its ok ??
  • Assuming that both parties are consenting adults, I feel that the opinions of others should not matter. Personally, I would never do it though.
  • No that is incest, which is not only illegal, but dangerous.
  • Um that would be a BIG hell no! WHy would you even think that or ask it? I personally think it's sick!
  • No, I think it's pretty close to sleeping with your brother or sister :/
  • Only if you don't mind the possibility of having a kid with 6 eyeballs and four arms..... I'm referring to a lesson in genetic diversity if you need to know.
  • EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing more to say about that.
  • Marriage between close biological relatives is generally regarded with suspicion and distaste within Western society, reflecting historical and religious prejudice. By comparison, in many other populations there is a strong preference for consanguineous unions, most frequently contracted between first cousins, and marriage outside the family is perceived as a risky and disruptive option. The increasing importance of the genetic contribution to the overall disease profile in both developed and developing countries has highlighted potential problems associated with detrimental recessive gene expression in consanguineous progeny.
  • No. Relationships of this kind (incestuous ones) are frowned upon for a reason. It's called inbreeding.
  • No it's not ok. It's called incest.
  • nah not first cousin. but everyone can do whatever they want to do.. so if it floats your boat, dont worry about what other people think
  • Not my first cousin, he's not a very nice person and won't call you the next day. On a serious note, I just don't think its a good idea, genetically or socially.
  • Well there's no need to feel bad about thinking about sleeping with your cousin. There's nothing wrong with fantasy..... but it would be best if you didn't ever act on it.It would get way too complicated. There's legal issues and issues about genetics if you have unprotected sex and then there's all the discrimination you're likely to receive from people. Even if you love him or her, just continue to love and leave it at that.
  • First off that is incestuous and much too close fro sexual relations. And second for me, that would be impossible because we couldn't get married and I'm not having sex with someone I'm not married to.
  • NO!!!! Let me say that again...NO
  • No, it's not okay. That is much too closely related to be having sex. It's called incest and if there was a child there would be risks of genetic defects.
  • Only if no monkey business goes on.
  • um eww,no......only if you are an animal
  • Some cultures actually promote mating with first cousins. Its not incest, incests is only in your direct linage parents siblings grandparents and children, which is definately not ok. First cousins mating genetically wouldn't cause more problems then a women having a child over 30. If you keep imbreeding then problems do happen. Its only a social construct.
  • no,no,no,no that is nasty and who ever does needs their head examined to see if there is a screw loose.
  • It is your choice..I think it is OK..but I just won't have any kids..till we both get tested. I never did it..You do what's right for you.
  • NO! seek help
  • Sleep, yes, have sex with, no. It's illegal as it's incest. Any offspring would probably be deformed, demented or both.
  • It is not okay to sleep with your first cousin. That is nasty.
  • Sure. My first cousins slept over quite a lot, and vice-versa. However, if what you mean to ask is if I think it is ok to have sex with your first cousin, the answer is no.
  • My great aunt married her first cousin and was disowned by her family and actually had to leave the country she was from. They had kids that had problems: one was blind and the other had mental problems. I say consenting adults can do what they want, but be ready for the consequences when you do...
  • Well, as long as you're both consenting adults, then there's nothing wrong with it. I wouldn't recommend having children due to how closely related you are, and other members of the family will most likely disapprove, but there's nothing morally wrong with it.
  • Firstly,if you just think your cousin is sexy, get over it and find somebody else.Rflagg above commented that sleeping with your cousin won't do much harm and this is true, especially if you never regret doing it. This i think is the most important factor in deciding to have sex or not! If you two truly love each other and have thought about all the possible consequences of being a couple such as discrimination etc. and you think you can face such things, then go ahead. However, do remember that you don't need to have sex to love your cousin and have a loving relationship with your cousin.
  • um, NO! that's not cool
  • I am engaged to my cousin and when we are married we will definitely have sex so if you are morally fine with premarital sex then sure go for it!
  • North or south of the Mason-Dixon?
  • it all depends on whether or not you grew up with them. if you didn't - it's weird for western people but not too bad.. if you did- NO WAY!! remember- in lots of asian cultures it is okay to marry your cousin (my friend did) so obviously they'll have to consumate the marriage! if it's just a one-night thing- it's probably not worth the aggro you'll get but if you love them..what can you do? you certainly can't live your life by someone else's rules can you?
  • This is a good question..... I was adopted, but met my birth family when I was 25 years old, and have tons of 1st cousins, who are ALL absolutely beautiful. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have thoughts, because in my adopted family, I had no brothers or sisters, and only one cousin (a male.) It took at least a year & a half to stop wanting that, from them, and treating them as just cousins.
  • I think it's fine. My first cousin and I were dating for a while (although it never got around to sex), and there's a certain amount of synergy there. If you're both consenting adults, go for it!
  • Sam Answers It all depends on how cute she is!
  • I don't think so but meh, what the hell do I know? =P
  • What's she wearing?
  • No I do not. Thank you for asking.
  • I slept in the same bed with my first cousin all the time. Would I have sex with her? No. I couldn't imagine.
  • I personally wouldn’t do it, but I guess as long as you’re married, who cares?
  • Not if you live in the Ozark MTS.
  • No, and it's actually illegal in a lot of states. Hopefully you live in West Virginia
  • ding ah ding ding, ding ding, ding ding ging! (Banjo! lol, some of you will get that joke, for those that don't, you probably thought yes to this question & are retarded lol)
  • 1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
  • Only if your sister refuses you.
  • god ... no 0_0
  • It is not supposet to be but I am sure a lot of us have at least considered it and more have than we will ever know about
  • the royal family are all incest, get over it if thats what you choose to do do it, i was in a long term relation ship with some guy and i never had contact with my fathers family or him himself and after having a child to him we discovered we were first cousins i know its seems wrong but we have a beautiful baby girl no defects i wouldnt of done it if i would of known but now its done i have move 40, 000 miles away and my child shall never know as i am not selfish in any such way to make my child socially declined, do you think this is terrible please comment back your opinions ! x
  • I don't think so, unless you own a banjo, then it's okay.
  • Sure. Just wear protection, just like any other encounter. Incest is a silly taboo anyway. SLING YOUR DRs AND VITRIOL, THEY MAKE GOOD BUTTSCRATCHERS!!! I stand tall in my defense of safe incest!
  • I found a great site full of questions to consider before you decide to sleep with a cousin. http://www.sleepingcousins.com/is-it-wrong-to-sleep-with-your-cousin Check it out for more information!
  • As long as you're adults and consenting I guess it's okay. Just careful if you take it any further... +5

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