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  • If you've been enduring this for 3 years and it continues, then you have to understand it's always going to be like this. It's not about YOU . . . it's about HIM! He is very insecure with low self esteem. You cannot change that for him no matter how hard you try. He could get to the goal more quickly with professional help.
  • What exactly do you mean by "he is putting me in a box"?
  • Do you KNOW for a fact that his past girlfriends cheated on him...or is only by what he has claimed to you? There's a big difference, especially if such is told to you to justify his phobic distrust of you. I don't wish to sow seeds of suspicion in you, but being painfully candid, I have found during my many years that those who are most suspicious-acting towards the one he/she is suppose to love, that is, the one who "doth protest too much"...THAT'S the person who's the more likely to be the cheater.
  • Three years of him trying to control you.How is that fun?It's not suprising that his girlfriends cheated on him.If you want to spend more time convincing him that you are "worthy" of his trust,then keep on.I don't think it's worth it.

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