Being both a Bobby Brown fan and a Whitney Houston fan, I seriously wish people would stop blaming Bobby Brown for Whitney’s downfall.
“You know how you think that Bobby Brown was the wife-beating idiot who helped plunge Whitney Houston into a spiral of hard drug addiction?”
Helped her? Whitney is not a damn princess, Whitney was a street girl from freaking Newark, New Jersey. Whitney was doing drugs long before she met Bobby. She admitted it several years ago. Her older brother was a drug dealer dealing coke, he probably introduced her to the stuff. She was attracted to Bobby for a reason - they were into the same stuff and he saw her for what she was. She didn’t like how people treated her like a princess. That’s why she went to Daryl Strawberry and Eddie Murphy (who was into wild sex parties) before Bobby. Whitney was simply Bobby’s smoking buddy, not her demonic accoster who tainted some innocent little princess. Bobby and Whitney have always been thugs, she was just better at hiding it publicly, but we finally got to see her real self in “Being Bobby Brown”. She asked Bobby to reach into her behind and pull out a chunk of s**t for cying out loud. That wasn’t Bobby, that was her.
I don’t feel sympathy for either of them because they both ruined their bright careers. Whintey’s career has been dead since 1997 and Bobby’s has been dead since 1993 or 1996 when he made that comeback album with New Edition. Now that they’ve split up, which I think is best for both of them, they will no longer enable each other in their drug habits. Hopefully they can pull their careers back off the ground. It might be harder for Whitney because I hear the drugs have her voice shot. But then again, it might be harder for Bobby because even though he more or less can still sing like before (though not quite as good), there is a lot of public animus against him because people irrationally blame him for Whitney’s downfall to avoid dealing with the hard truth, like Bobby Brown fans have to, that she pulled her own career down and threw it away. Besides, Whitney was 5 or 6 years older than Bobby. She was an adult when he was still singing teeny bop songs with New Edition pre-1986. It's not quite the same age gap but it was a 90's version of a Demi Moore-Ashton Kutcher marriage. Whitney seemed to be running things behind the scenes as we saw on "Being Bobby Brown".
Bobby has enough problems as it is right now. He's gotten off of drugs and he's trying to make a 15 years too late comeback admist a sea of hatred and animus of Whitney fans using him as a scapegoat. Leave that man alone.
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