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  • It shouldn't affect your relationship at all unless you let it. It sounds like so far you have doing a great job. I think you should have your children learn about both religions and when they are old enough they may select one that they prefer or they may find that they get comfort out of both. Many children don't carry on with the faith they are taught once they get older anyways so, you're really just giving them a good base to make their own decision later.
  • I'd recommend agreeing on a church. Would it kill you to go just to your fiance's church or would it bother him to go to just your church? Maybe there is a middle ground you could both agree upon. What is your Fiance's denomination?
  • This is really a tough question because each of you has your own set of beliefs. Once children come into the picture, things can get really sticky. The children may become very confused when they start learning more about each religion. When they start asking questions about which is 'right', what will you say?
  • My parents the same way... One is catholic the other LDS. Well they both talked about it before they got married and agreed we would go to the LDS church. The one that is a member always allows us to learn about other religions so we still have that choice.
  • I think disagreements about money and religion is was causes the most fights in a relationship. I strongly believe that it is important to be on the same page about these issues, or else there will be problems. I'm also Mormon, but I don't say this because of the religion I belong to, but because I do have a religion. Religions influence people to not only believe, but to act and live in certain ways and its best to see eye to eye on these issues. Probably either one of you will start going to the others church, you will both stop going all together, or you will end up separating

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