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Hell NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
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definetly. i want to get married and have a family of my own. that and becoming a nurse are my biggest goals.
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Yes God willing I would like a wife and kids. I would take family over fame and fortune any day.
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Nope! BUT and this a very big but, i do consider finding my soul mate,lover,perfect partner to be a BIG goal to achieve in life.
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Marriage is not as important to me as, say, going to college and graduate school. Yes, being married might be nice someday, when I'm good and ready. I am not planning my marriage, or my life after marriage. I am pretty neutral to it. On one hand, spending lots of time with a beautiful, witty, charming, intelligent lady sounds good. On the other hand, though, lots of marriages go bad and whatnot. I'll probably know in several years... I'm too young to be thinking about major commitments like this. I should probably have had a girlfriend before I think about marrying anyone. Hmmm...
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I don't consider marriage a 'goal'. First of all, its something that anyone can do and does not require any particular skill (not that this is what defines a goal). Secondly I think that its "cart-before-the-horse" thinking. If marriage is your goal, then all you need to do is find a husband/wife to insert in to the formula. IMHO, being with that special person should be the thing that inspires you to get married, not the other way around.
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Been there done that got the divorce papers to prove it.
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No, the big goal is KEEPING the marriage!
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No way in hell do I want to get married. The very thought turns my stomach. No, a piece of paper and a ring mean nothing to me
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No, I consider happiness my main goal in life, and I don't honestly think I could ever be happy with anything as normal as mairrage.
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Been there, done that... Not a big goal, though, since I'm now separated... =P
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Yeah I'd say so.....and I'm still working at it after 28 years.
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I did once. It didn't work out. I changed my "goal."
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marriage was never a goal for me. it was never something i planned on. when i did get married, i did it spontaneously at the courthouse. romantic huh?
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I didn't start off thinking, I must get married. I found a person who I was compatible with, who had many of the same goals as myself and thankfully we are still together. Getting married is easy, staying married and getting along is hard work and no everyone is cut out for that kind of effort.
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No i never want to get married, g/f of 3yrs talk about it all the time. I have to te her everyday i dont want marriage
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No.
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For some reason, making marriage a life goal seems very backward to me. Like you're just constantly interviewing people that come in and out of your life, which I think misses the passion point somehow.... I don't feel like I'm making much sense here, but it's the best I've got at the moment. lol
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anyone can get married,but yes it's maintaining the relationship that's the goeal.
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No, I don't plan on getting married. I would like to have kids, though.
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I do. So does my wife.
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I did, my wife did not. End of that story. I do not pursue it now as a goal at all.
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Getting married is easy - it's staying married that's the hard part.
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I did, and it has been achieved, twice unfortunately. Second time is much better then. Next goal was to have kids, done that now, so the next goal is to raise them and support them.
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Marriage is a one of the biggest steps couple can take, and it becomes a big goal for them. I was married one time and I couldn't wait to be married, it was the largest goal of my life at the time. The marriage deteriorated and we divorced. I have been engaged two times since my divorce and neither one worked out, however I still remain optomistic...I plan on someday meeting that certain someone who is compatible with me and Marriage will possibly again become a big goal to achieve in my life.
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i dont think marriage is a goal, i think a successfull happy marriage is an acheivement on both parties concerned. after all anyone can get married, it is making the marriage work that matters.
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if its with the right person, yes. but then again, a ring shouldnt show ur comitment to one another.
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The older I get, the more I realize that it's not as important to me as raising my child best I can, and getting my career on track. I would like to do it, and probably will soon, but I don't think about it as often as I used to.
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well all of my others goals have gone to shit so im not planning on it ,but if it happens then i guess good for me.lol
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Yes. Marriage is something that I hope to achieve in my life. I would like to someday have a husband and a family. I would like to someday have the stereotypical house in the country with the white picket fence and kids playing in the yard. The hardest part seems to be finding the right guy to achieve these things with.
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I honestly didn't consider it a big goal until AFTER I got married. After a couple of months of married life, I realized that I was meant to be married. It suited me very well.
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For me apart from when I have children Getting married this September is the biggest goal I will achieve in my life.
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No, it was never one of my goals, although I am married.
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No, it has never been my goal and people should not see it as an achievement. But if they wanna think that way that's okay, it's not a crime.
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