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  • no but your ex acted badly and made it hard for the lad. would you have said something to your son?
  • No. Your EX did.
  • No, your ex was the one who is in the wrong. No matter how anyone feels about homosexuality, if you are a parent, you love your child unconditionally. Only a complete s.o.b. would throw out their own child like that. It's stories like this that kept me closeted for so long...I was afraid that would happen to me. I know now, after finally coming out to my family a few years ago, that that wouldn't have happened.
  • i feel so sorry for your boy. hes 15, he's still a kid. you didn't do anything wrong, your ex did. have you talked to your son? brought him back in the house? kicked the ex out?
  • you didnt do anything wrong. His father did.
  • i am still in school and i got outed before i said anything. i consider myself transgendered and i was wearing my sisters clothing and got caught. i was so scared. i hope that you took him in and gave him the nuturing and care that anyone deserves when they are young.
  • You definitely did wrong in letting the ex kick him out. You should have gone with him: you look after your children whatever. Compared to that, the accidental outing is relatively small. A pity, but not a disaster. But letting him be thrown out is a disaster.
  • Yes, you must have known your ex was crazy. Why did you tell him?
  • was your ex your partner at the time? do you live together? if no then take your son in and care for him your x shouldnt have kicked your son out, he hasnt done anything wrong and you need to tell your son that as he will be extremely hurt and confused! you should have spoken to your son yourself and found out
  • You did nothing wrong..But if you knew your ex would snoop then you shouldnt of told your ex in the first place even though he may be your son .... 15 is pretty young to be kicked out of the house just for being gay ,its pretty selfish of your ex to do such a thing to a boy that young who probably had a rough time coming to terms with his own sexuality
  • you are the mother... u should have a more tender heart u shouldve stopped ur ex he is ur son too now who would the boy look up to ... now u have broken the poor guyss heart badly.... but i just dont get that... u should go find ur son and get him back and talk him out of being gay
  • Would your ex's opinions on homosexuality be likely to change in the next 10 years or so? If not, this has probably merely brought things forward. If your ex is capable of throwing a 15 year old out on the street, what's to stop him when your son is 16, or 18, or 25? So, 'the wrong thing'? Well, it might have avoided some unpleasantness if your son had been able to leave his father's house by choice, then told him, but I think that's the only finger that can be pointed at you. From other answers and your comments, I gather your son is now living with you, which is almost certainly the best place for him. 'Out' or not, growing up in a climate of disapproval, blame and anger does no-one any good. He's best out of it, and if he has any sense he will realise that, and not lay blame at your door for the events that have brought him to you.
  • I think your ex is a ass!!!Thats your son so what if hes gay isnt he your son??Do you love him differently now?? If not then you need to sort this out and fast before you lose him
  • How can a 15 year old boy survive out there without turning to drug trades? You people need ot bring him back, that is, if he still wants to come back after you people have humiliated him for some sick reasons. What the heck is wrong with being bloodly homosexual? I'm not gay but every time primitive people make such a big fuss about it, it reminds me of a time when america used to BBQ people as witches. After 200 years, you people are still as primitive as ever!

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