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by Norman_Outside the lines on January 9th, 2007

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WOULD YOU HELP ME?
I don t care what god you believe in,I don t even care if you believe in God or a god. Tomorrow is the anniversary of my brothers tragic death..Jan.10 th. WOULD YOU PLEASE SAY A PRAYER FOR HIM? or think good things for him.(

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  • by AntigoneRising on January 9th, 2007

    AntigoneRising

    Positive thoughts will be directed to your brother tomorrow. I think it is more important that I also direct them to YOU and your family.

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  • by Firebrand on January 9th, 2007

    Firebrand

    Yes of course.

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  • by Michellek518 on January 9th, 2007

    Michellek518

    I will certainly do that for you.

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  • by tomsims on January 20th, 2007

    tomsims

    I will and I will certainly pray for you and your entire family. My grandfather died tragically on January 10, 1970. He is already in God's care and does not need my prayers, but those left behind to live with grief always need prayer. I will pray for all of you.

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  • by Anonymous on January 9th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Sure man, I'll say a few words in prayer for both you an him.. Send him some positivity!

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  • by lil-hina on January 9th, 2007

    lil-hina

    Yes..i would absitively do that for your brother..such a good and meaningfull question..wow! you must love your brother really much..i will say a prayer for you both=)
    peace=)

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  • by anonymous on January 9th, 2007

    anonymous

    Of course. I'll do both.

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  • by Nomasain on January 20th, 2007

    Nomasain

    Your question really touches me. Please forgive me if my words don't comfort you the way I intended. (and for being late..)
    I have a caretaking older brother, and I almost lost him. I towed his car exceeding the speed limit (80m/h); the cable got stuck in his steering gear and snapped. He barely was able to keep his car on the road (oldtimer, no safetybelts or even a roof). If he had lost control, he would surely have died. I'm not very religeous, but I thank God he is still with us. I'm so sorry you lost your brother.
    I don't know where your brother is now, and I'm sure he wants to be remembered. But I doubt he wants you to beat yourself up about it...
    If it was the other way around, and you were in heaven right now, would you find it in your heart to forgive your brother for not answering the phone just once...?
    I'll lite a candle for your brother right now, and likely remember your question whenever I lite another one. Strenght.

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  • by Babycakes on May 10th, 2007

    Babycakes

    You got it!!Your brother would be so proud of you for thinking of him in this way. Gd Bless you.

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  • by justtheme on May 10th, 2007

    justtheme

    I give this prayer for your brother.

    Though i walk through the valley of the shadow of death i shall fear no evil, sorry i dont know the rest.

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  • by princess di on June 16th, 2008

    princess di

    I pray to god that ur brother is in a better place..my bf died almost 5 months ago...I talk to his sister all the time...and I can't imagine th pain, agony, and dispair you have gone through...
    ...may god not only be w/your brother but w/ur whole family!!...I'm sure he must b in a better place by now, I mean how could he not be...he's had so many prayers and good thoughts sent his way....
    ...if u don't mind will u pray for my boyfriend as well his name is payam"gods gift":)...thank you and god bless!!

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  • by alli_brad on January 2nd, 2008

    alli_brad

    i will say a prayer for your brother....but will you please say a prayer for my brother? he was only 26. it would mean a lot to me too.

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  • by Shadow on December 15th, 2007

    Shadow

    i really feel bad about it.. i know what you feel wright now, but i wont give some stupid advices like it will be alright.. i imagine that you thousands of thoughts why but what shouldn't you do is blaim yourself, it is each ones choice.. eaven if its that one..

    time will get over it.. but im sorry that you lost someone dear to you.

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  • by Vampyre Bat on December 14th, 2007

    Vampyre Bat

    I say prayers every night. I have made a note to say one for your brother. Consider it done!

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  • by Shadow on December 8th, 2007

    Shadow

    maybe im too late maybe its all over but whos sure there is an heaven or hell.. some religion tells that there is nothing after death, others say if you were good, there will be a paradise waiting for you. what do you believe in? or are you afraid that your brother is not worth to get to heaven? did he do anything bad?

    anyways we will never know that do we?

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  • by Anonymous on November 22nd, 2007

    Anonymous

    I would say a prayer but it would not come from my heart. Instead I will imagine him as the brother I do not have. A good man with failings as have we all, but who has paid the ultimate price that his good deeds and actions might keep his memory alive and well.

    If there be a better place after death, I imagine he is there and looks over you and smiles joyfully when happiness is in your heart. I imagine he has walked by your side many a time and longed to put his arm around you and give you that gentle squeeze of encouragement. So too he must have laughed as he caused a gust of wind to blow off your hat or drop some papers. For he still must enjoy the little things, the laughter, the play that must have once held you close.

    Hold his memory close.

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  • by Chaysgirl24 on November 5th, 2007

    Chaysgirl24

    I sure will! Sorry to hear about your brother!

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  • by BACowboy on June 21st, 2007

    BACowboy

    No need to pray for your brother. He's with his god, if you believe in that. I do pray for you and your family in that you finish your grieving and enjoy your life until you can be with your brother. My belief is that life never ends, it just changes. I'm sure your brother is off on some other adventure somewhere out there. I will tell you that I lost my sister under tragic surcumstances so I think I know how you feel. My prayers are with you and your family.

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  • by MG1942 Has a Life Penguin on April 8th, 2007

    MG1942 Has a Life Penguin

    Yes, Happily. Sorry for your loss.

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  • by fuzzy_rabbit on April 8th, 2007

    fuzzy_rabbit

    Yes I will, whats his name?

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  • by xxalixx on April 8th, 2007

    xxalixx

    i will because your right...it doesn't matter who you believe in or what, as long as we can all think of someone in need when it is asked of us then we should be okay...good luck with tomorrow, i know the sort of person who would ask a question like that will be strongxxx

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  • by R4ZORB4CK on April 6th, 2007

    R4ZORB4CK

    I will pray FOR YOU. You are the one needing love, support and consolation, not your dear brother.

    And I will pray for those around you. Your family, your friends, next to you.

    PRAY FOR THE LIVING, NOT THE DEAD.

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  • by sunshineinabag on April 6th, 2007

    sunshineinabag

    you are such a great brother & person in general. may he rest in peace. <3

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  • by ...trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. on April 6th, 2007

    ...trust in the Lord Jesus Christ.

    I'm really sorry about this tragedy you're going through. This probably won't comfort you much, but I don't believe in prayer for the dead. I believe that once a person dies their eternal destiny is sealed dependant upon whether they are saved or not. But, I'll pray for you and your family. Jesus loves you and knows exactly what your going through. There's not a bit of sorrow that you've felt that He hasn't felt for you already. He shed His precious blood at the cross for you and your loved ones and died for you so that you and your family could join Him in heaven where there'll be no more pain or death. I'll pray for you. Thank you and God bless you!

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  • by Valparaiso on February 8th, 2007

    Valparaiso

    How about I say a prayer for you and your family?

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on February 8th, 2007

    JUSTNORMAL

    Prayers going out your way Norman. May he rest peacefully

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  • by latoya06 on February 8th, 2007

    latoya06

    i will certainly say a prayer and im very sorry ill also tell my pastor and church to pray for u because its really hard i lost my dad 12 years ago and his birthday was just wednesday 02/07 and i guess when i woke up i expected the day to be hard but i took a few deep breaths and got out of bed looked out the window and said happy birthday daddy so what ever u do dont mope around u know and if u begin to feel overwhelmed i recommend some deep breaths just take it one step at a time he's right there to help hope ur ok

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  • by Beezyboo on January 21st, 2007

    Beezyboo

    its past jan. 10th now,,, but i will still pray for your brother

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  • by Slipshod Wombat and Co. on January 21st, 2007

    Slipshod Wombat and Co.

    ok, i will

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  • by tinybubbles is sitting on the carpet read on January 21st, 2007

    tinybubbles is sitting on the carpet read

    sure i will, sorry for your loss. I know it is a bit late but i will say one every day for him.

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  • by BLynn4487 on January 20th, 2007

    BLynn4487

    My apologies for not seeing this in time for the anniversary, but my thoughts and prayers go to both you and your brother. May you find peace and comfort knowing that he is in a better place (although I know it's hard to feel that way).

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  • by FallingLeaf on January 9th, 2007

    FallingLeaf

    Certainly. I like to pray for people by name, if you don't mind disclosing it. Any specific kind of prayer that he needs?

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  • by Namaste formerly future_health_educator on January 9th, 2007

    Namaste formerly future_health_educator

    Yes, but you don't have to wait for the anniversary of his death to honnor your brother. You can do it whenever you want.

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  • by Universe Of Life on January 9th, 2007

    Universe Of Life

    Definately, Tell us his name so we can remember him.

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  • by Anonymous on January 9th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Yes.

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  • by onzanzabarsands on January 9th, 2007

    onzanzabarsands

    My husband was murdered 2 years ago on January 6th. I feel your pain, I will pray for you too. Many blessings.

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  • by 1Simmy on January 9th, 2007

    1Simmy

    My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family for tomorrow. And about the prayer have already done so

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  • by teknimage on January 9th, 2007

    teknimage

    Of course. I will also think good thoughts about you. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  • by anonymous on January 9th, 2007

    anonymous

    Sorry for your loss. I definitely will

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  • by Nom de guerre on January 9th, 2007

    Nom de guerre

    Consider it done.

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  • by Ezzy on January 9th, 2007

    Ezzy

    of course

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  • by Anonymous271 on January 9th, 2007

    Anonymous271

    No problem.

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  • by JazzieFizzle on May 10th, 2007

    JazzieFizzle

    Absolutely

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  • by Pumby umby umpkin Est. 1989 on November 5th, 2007

    Pumby umby umpkin Est. 1989

    Im sorry to hear about your brother, and I will. I'm sure he's watching over you now.

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  • by researcher for God on April 8th, 2007

    researcher for God

    I can pray for you but your brother is safely resting he is not in hell... Pray for yourself to help ease your burdens...

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