Im 14 weeks pregnant and iv started to show quiet alot people keep telling me im goin to have a big baby but i just feel fat and ugly. Its bringing me down and im always crying, is this normal or do i need to see a doctor?

Some people start showing earlier than others. That dosen't mean that you are going to have a big baby. I have had three children and showed early too. All my kids were normal sizes. I also felt fat and ugly. It is hard to see your body change so drastically and changing hormones dont help you feel better. Just remember that you are growing a new life inside of you who fully relies upon you. Every thing you do affects that child. If you are seeing a doctor regularly, don't be afraid to voice any concerns that you may have. They have heard it all!!! Take care of yourself and dont worry about what others say!

I think you are going to be a great mum. Your body is working overtime to make the changes needed for your baby and all those hormones rushing through your system can make the first three months feel like double PMT/PMS.

Even while you feel so miserable and tearful and useless, just remember that its very normal and its going to go away (quicker if you sleep right and eat right) and its a sign of good stuff going on.

Go and see a doctor anyway - in the UK you would be having an ultrasound scan about now.

Of course its normal and as soon as that baby starts moving around that feeling of ugliness will go away with the miricle feeling it brings...til the eight month when you can't wait for it to come out...lol