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by Anonymous on January 7th, 2007

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Guys, what is the best way for a girl to get you to notice her? I think guys should make the first move, but the best way for a girl to get your attention without overdoing it?

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  • by Valparaiso on January 8th, 2007

    Valparaiso

    Flirt with him, be nice to him, be there for him.

    I don't think guys have to make the first move though hon. I tell you I would certainly notice any girl who came up to me and said "Look I like you." or "Hey would you like to go out sometime."

    If a woman can vote, if a woman can fight in a war, fly a plane, be a doctor, etc etc etc then a woman can take the intitative and make the first move.

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  • by fataka on January 7th, 2007

    fataka

    I have answered a question similar to this one before. One more time wont hurt.

    TO IMPRESS A WOMAN
    Compliment her
    Respect her
    Honor her,
    Cuddle her,
    Caress her,
    Love her,
    Comfort her,
    Protect her,
    Hold her,
    Spend money on her,
    Wine and dine her,
    Buy things for her,
    Listen to her,
    Care for her,
    Stand by her,
    Support her,
    Hold her,
    Go to the ends of the Earth for her.

    TO IMPRESS A MAN -
    JUST SMILE ONCE AND HE'S YOURS!

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  • by nevets - badgicide on January 8th, 2007

    nevets - badgicide

    There is no 'should' and on no account is it a male or female role to ask someone out.

    If you like someone, you take action. Talk to him.

    What you don't do is selectively use gender steriotypes when it suits you.

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  • by tigueron on January 8th, 2007

    tigueron

    smile and big smile, no words, no interaction, smile at him and go away

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  • by Skrubby on June 10th, 2008

    Skrubby

    The way to a mans heart is through his stomache, bring him in some cookies or treats and start a friendly conversation. if he is not socially anept like myself, he will probably ask you out. if not, you can ask him out

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  • by Rinky Dinky Do on January 8th, 2009

    Rinky Dinky Do

    Boobs always get my attention

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  • by Countess Crapula on December 17th, 2008

    Countess Crapula

    You wrote ...
    "I'm a pretty confident girl. I just want to catch this one guys attention. WITHOUT, dressing s***TY, or telling him I like him. I try to laugh and look like a lot of fun to be with when he is around, but I just don't know..... "

    A few notes; don't TRY to be fun and funny, that should some naturally. Just be you. No, you don't have to dress slutty because sluts are only used for ne thing and it never lasts. However, and I don't know you but remember that guys like to date girls, not their buddies. Now, you have to be aware whether he is aware of you. Example, if you have been in this guys college class for the last 5 weeks and he hasn't even looked at or even talked to you but he has talked to others, well, he may not be interested. Oh, be smart, mature, if you have a talent try to use it, or bring snacks and offer them to everybody, including him. Make sure they are really yummy!

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  • by gerrik on January 8th, 2007

    gerrik

    you just need to be yourself, dont overdo anything or appear to be false and have confidence in yourself when your around girls... the girls may come to you then

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  • by seekinglight on January 8th, 2009

    seekinglight

    Pull your pants down. No serious. Then pretend they fell down accidently due to have lost weight and the trousers are loose. It will give her a few seconds to analyze your potential and see what could be in store.

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  • by Intelligentsia on January 8th, 2009

    Intelligentsia

    Go up to him and talk. If you don't think he'll make a move, you should make one.

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  • by stuart on January 24th, 2009

    stuart

    Be real, dont posture, dont pose and most of all talk to her as a person.

    If you are really brave, go buy her a single flower and run up and give it to her 'say this is for you, sorry cant stop' then run away again.

    Be brave, it will work and make her smile all day, she will be secretly really pleased and tell all her friends etc.

    Oh and one other thing, take the stuff about 'boys should' and 'girls should' out of your head. life is too short to abide by ridiculous nonsense like that.

    People are individuals and should be considered as such, shoving people into boxes based upon their sex and what you think there sex should do is not the best way to approach life

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  • by Master Of Kings on July 11th, 2011

    Master Of Kings

    Usually the type of men that have women approach them are really quiet and seem lonely and sad. Most of the bitches don't do this-it kind of ticks me off. Women always say they are about compasion but for some reason they can't bring themselves to helping someone in need-even if it is a guy they like.

    Your overdoing it if you see each other EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THE WEEK.
    Repeteditivness(sp?) kills the relationship. If you are having to pull out the same moves to get his attention-or you have got nothing else left then you should call it a temporaray quits from there. When you stop he may then realize how special you are and he may come back to be with you some more. That is why I say don't shut him out completly. Stay away from his friends, because they'll make up lies about you saying that your a slut that wants to get ******. Or that girl that wants his c***. And this might change his attitude/oppinion about you and just leave you alone all together. So dont approach his friends, approach him.

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  • by ChuckExAnon on January 8th, 2009

    ChuckExAnon

    A simple, natural smile and the direct look of bright smiling eyes suggest the possibility of inner beauty...and get my attention instantly. I'll want to explore...[and my dear wife will lean over and softly whisper "In your dreams, buster!" :-)]

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