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  • Sounds like your former BFF wasn't such a great friend if she talked behind the girls back and is now best friends with her. Gossip only leads to trouble! Perhaps someone not to trust so much? People like that are typically insecure or looking for power and you need need to be areful around them.If no one likes the other girl think of the reasons why and if they are good reasons then steer clear. Sometimes friendships change and it turns out for the best even though it hurts.
  • Sometimes it takes a while for the "real" person to come to light. How long were you best friends? Was the playing you behind your back too? I'll never forget some advice from my Mom....she always told me that if a friend says bad stuff about someone else to me that the same friend is probably saying bad stuff about me to someone else. So many people play hurtful games.....not worth wasting precious time on. I believe that eventually "what goes around, comes around". It will just be a matter of time before her game playing catches up to her. In the meantime, if I were you, I'd distance myself from her.
  • Sounds like a lot of drama and gossip. Know that any "friend" of yours who is willing to so gratuitously talk badly of someone else will probably turn on you in a heartbeat. Gossip and drama are tell-tale signs of a person's character. When you attract this type of negativity and mean-spirited, that's the type of company you keep. "Lie down with dogs and wake up with fleas." Don't talk about people behind their backs, and you will find yourself in better-quality, more loyal company. No reason to engage name-calling like calling someone "the devil" - just do what is right for you and remember what I am telling you about the character of your friends and what you attract.

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