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  • I went on 2 dates with this guy. After the first date, he asked me on a 2nd. We really had a good time both times. Our personalities are very alike (we’re both very unshy and sarcastic). We spent the whole night laughing at each other – it was nice. He was a perfect gentleman, opened all doors for me, walked me to my car, etc. He ended up asking me for a 2nd date (which also went good – we went to a movie and he was a gentleman the whole night once again). Anyway, 2 days after our 2nd date, I received a text message from him saying hi (this was last Wednesday). He also said he was leaving town for the weekend. Anyway, I haven’t heard from him again and I’m not sure if I should call him, text him.. what? My question is……. If you were really into a girl, wouldn’t you just pick up the phone and call her instead of text? BUT.. he could have easily not contacted me at ALL if he wasn’t interested? Why does this dating thing have to be so confusing.
  • you might want to check and see if he is married.
  • He is NOT married. I met him at his place the 2nd date and spent some time there. He's definitely single.
  • Call or text him. It's been several days and you are interested in knowing that he is safe. There is nothing wrong with being concerned with a friend's safety. If you get no answer, then you will have your answer. And dating is so complicated because it involves people. If you dated a blow up doll, you wouldn't have a problem; but it might be as interesting or fulfilling. Or, it might.
  • Give the poor guy some room to breath dude! If he's ready for you he'll call you eventually; in the meantime go on with your life as if nothing had happened.

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