i met lots whilst dating and to be honest if u sort out the posers, sex maniacs, losers, around the block guys, the popular set, if they type to you and want to meet you, hold off until ur really ready and ur sure they are safe to meet, do not jump quickly, u can be burnt, some guys are bedpost lovers and god its full of them to be honest, kinda hides the decent ones sad to say.

Have a good few conversations with them before you meet. Ask them what they are looking for - relationship/dating/bit of fun etc. Most ppl are genuine and will be honest. Don't give your game away too soon - let them give you their answers first or be evasive with yours until you feel ready. Ask them what they are into - hobbies / vacations / social life. What kind of person do they sound like - do you have things in common? Do they make you laugh? You can get a good feel for someone over a few conversations and if they mention sex then they are more likely to be looking for that - ask them outrightly if they do mention it - let them know whether you are interested or not. Most men won't make the effort to meet if you are both looking for different things. Ask them for their phone number and ring them - withholding your number at first. Speaking to someone on the phone gives you a much better idea about someone. Only meet them if you would feel comfortable with them having your phone number. Tell your friends where you are going to be and have an escape plan ready if necessary. As for meeting then first time - choose somewhere very public and try to have a meal or drink - go somewhere you can chat - not the pictures! Above all stay as safe as possible.

Is your real name Lorena....

Anything except sex, politics and religion. But if you got the person's number from a friend, some starting questions are: how long they've known each other; their career; if they like their career; and basically additional info they reveal to you about themselves.