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why did element 99 leave the AB?
by angelisback on January 30th, 2012
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Where are all the old members of AB who haven't been on for a year or longer? Where are they now?
by Kenz the Frenz on January 20th, 2012
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Has Weylon left AB? His new avatar says "Goodbye, I'll miss you". We'll all miss him, he's one of the funniest guys on AB.
by Kenz the Frenz on February 15th, 2012
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Who would you most like to see return to AB?
by Unicorn Man on February 1st, 2012
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Have any of you notice Butterfly21 has not been here? What happened to Butterfly21?
by unknown on February 6th, 2012
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You're reading In the last month, several "superbaggers" have left AB. They seem to be predominantly adults. That may be irrelevant. They have found the discourse "disappointing." Any theories on why the exodus? Has AB become "insensitive or hurful" to you?
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I can relate to everything you are saying. It may be the novelty runs out when our "wisdom" is depleted. But there is new blood out there who are more interested in each other or being "noticed" than in the thoghtful aspects of AB. I haven't given up yet, but sure hope others do! It is interesting how some of the most shallow of answers earn points. Many people have reached your level or mine in about 3 to 4 weeks. this smacks of "cronyism" to me.....points.
by Mirage V2.0 AWOL on January 4th, 2007
Funny, I see just as many of the "old" baggers doing the very same things you are accusing only the new of doing.
by Snooch on January 10th, 2007
Mirage I respect your opinions but I have just reached 40 Level and I do not have ANY cronies on AB nor do I know many people I do not pander to top point givers and always call it as I see it. I have to my surprise reached this point score on very low scoring questions . In fact it was my early complaints about the cliquishness of the upper echelons that prompted Stable Boy to give up his badge and start over to see if what I was saying was true.
I have been here less than a month and i agree that some very infantile and futile questions get very high scores but that does not mean we are all in a cabal to hike each other up the board. I certainly am not ,at the moment i have much more important things to deal with .I just have found being on here has helped me somewhat in a very emotionally difficult time. I would hate to think that older members thought i had cheated my way up the board
by Firebrand on January 10th, 2007
You can't leave, Ms. Bear. We're still using you to stay warm.
by Stableboy on January 10th, 2007
Stableboy, I'm not leaving... however, once I get this sinus infection under control, you will see less of me - I HAVE to get back to the gym. I admit that at least some of my impatience is due to my own illness, fatigue and lack of exercise.
by Anonymous on January 10th, 2007
Mirage, it's not cronyism that really bothers me lately on AB. I do think it's there, but just not something that I care about. I think that my problem has more to do with my own expectations of some of the people here. Today though, I just had to remind myself to lower my expectations and I did feel better.. On the flip, the AB staff was very prompt in helping me with a problem recently and that lifted my spirits a bit.
by Anonymous on January 11th, 2007
I always find that if I lower my bar far enough, I can fall over it in a drunken stupor and still be satisfied!
by Stableboy on January 13th, 2007
Momma: Thanks for posting this thoughtful answer. It sums up how I feel exactly. I am thinking about taking a break, myself. I'm sure I would come back! Just some silence in my brain where I'd focus on my own real life, reading the classics like I always promised myself, climbing the mountains I intend to climb, etc.
by zazzy_one on January 14th, 2007
"Cronyism and cabal" may be poor terms. More timely might be the term "network". This is not paranoia speaking, just a sense that I see a lot of "overlap" among certain posters in their Q&A's. Since posting this question, on Jan 4Th, 2007, this is March 29, 2007, many of the meteors who shot up in the rankings have burned brightly and disappeared, While many of my favorites remain. Perhaps patience and a commitment to post only "good" answers will survive the trend of superficial Q&A's.
by Mirage V2.0 AWOL on March 29th, 2007
I agree with you Mirage -- while the bag doesn't really factor in quality in the rankings, there are enough good people who just keep sticking around to make it worthwhile I feel. I think the key is (as you say) patience, and also having a good "ignore filter". Anybody who can sit in a room full of young children playing should be able to tune out just about anything! For those who can't, just wait until AB 6.0 when we have "ignore this user" options! :-)
by Stableboy on March 29th, 2007
"Ignore this user." A dream come true. Too bad AB doesn't do this for me. It is such a chore trying to get used to all these new folks.
by Mirage V2.0 AWOL on March 29th, 2007
SB, there are good people here :) and I've been getting back to myself lately, I have recently even taken on a new work project! I have really missed my AB friends, which tells me that there is a lot of good here. I guess it's like everyone says, "everything in moderation". The new format surprised me, but I loved checking in and getting up to date with everything :)
by Anonymous on April 10th, 2007
Corny as usual, everyone is now adding me to their "Ignore This User" list... LOL!
by Anonymous on April 10th, 2007
Actually I don't think we're ignoring you... there's been a bug in the follow-up comment light for some time which just got fixed the other day... so now I keep stumbling onto incomplete comment threads everywhere :-( Anyway, I'm so glad you didn't pop for the Final Exit door, especially with a mournful swan song :-)
by Stableboy on May 20th, 2007
Aw shucks SB :) You're too kind to me... Anyway, I'm not ready to say goodbye for good yet. I am really happy to be back and I am really enjoying AB again. Taking a little break was a good thing for me - and I got to make a little money too!!
Also, Mirage, I wanted to say thanks for your kindness too.. You're a real pal and I appreciate it!
by Anonymous on May 20th, 2007
SB and MB, thanks for sharing your thoughts and points with me.
AB 5.0 seems to have relieved many of the real or imagined "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" issues. Where is everybody? My life has taken a turn, 5/20/07 and I don't know how long it will take before my heart again turns toward AB.
Best to you all...Rick
by Mirage V2.0 AWOL on May 20th, 2007