Should a woman ever have a threesome?

I think that if a woman has an intrest in a threesome, she should explore her options and live out the fantasy. It is a wonderful experiance.

There was a point in time where more of my partners had been added through group situations than one-on-one... I enjoyed almost all of my threesomes very much- and the occasional four as well... some with a second (ahem. or third) man and some only with an additional woman.... I am pretty bi and generally the other women were as well- though my favorites were the bi or bi-curious men (particularly when one was my sweetie). I never had a group experience without my sweetie present, except twice when a couple I was friends with asked me to join. Generally I only had intercourse with the man I was dating- though not in the case of the couples.
Being a woman can be a very nice position in a group dynamic, even if you are straight and your third is also a straight woman. Generally even then some experimentation is acceptable to both women (if you or your girlfriend- and I *highly* recommend you do the choosing- don't feel comfortable with this at all, I would reconsider, personally). And girls, let's face it- we actually *can* go all night. If you trust your partners, a solid group experience can be very fun and exciting and can be healthy for both your friendship and relationship.
Here's where I have to echo the above opinion- boundaries and open communication and general respect for "position," npi- are absolutely *crucial*, and you shouldn't consider the potential damage you are risking to your relationship if you are truly not ready, personally or in your relationship, nor should you consider trying this prematurely- before you feel ready as a couple, or before you find a suitable third.
Lastly, I'd add that, while alcohol (or similar means) *can* add to the experience, keep it in control. "Spontaneous" group sex when you just "happen" to get drunk together is just like one on one sex in the same circumstances- sometimes you get lucky, but usually it's a bad idea, even if it's with someone[s] you were already leaning toward sleeping with. Maybe especially so.

Why not? The only thing that matters is whether or not it harms anyone in the act: No harm no foul!

If she wants to, sure. I've had threesomes, they've been some of the best and worst experiences of my life- and I wouldn't take it back for the world. All you religious conservatives can suck my *&^% if you don't liek it!!!

I don't see why not, now you should be aware of the roles and hierarchies and set some rules and boundaries.

When I first started having threesomes (and foursomes) all people involved were the same, we were all friends and we all wanted to have sex so there were no boundaries other than what we like to do. After that I had a girl friend and we wanted to have a three some now this is different, the third party has a (let's say it) lower hierarchy than my girl friend (was a woman) so my GF and I talked and decided that some things were not allowed since it would hurt her, so we decided: not kissing, no anal and no ear biting (that was just for her).

We had a great time, with that experience I've had many threesomes after that with minimal implications because I communicated well with my partners, understood the roles and hierarchies and set rules and boundaries in advance.

There is not 1 answer that fits everybody. I have been in several 3somes, both MFM and FMF, and I love them. I like group sex for the most part. My boyfriend likes to share me with others while he watches and takes pictures and/or video of me sucking and fucking other men and women. We are swingers. I love being shared. We often play with others and it is a good part of our relationship that works for us. I'm NOT saying it will work for everybody because more people have problems with then those that dont. I believe she shouls ALWAYS involve her husband or boyfriend if she is in a comitted relationship.

Hiya!!!

I am married and my husband and I are active in the swinging lifestyle. It has added nothing but wonderful things to our relationship, just remember to communicate everything your feeling with your spouse prior to acting on any meeting!

Hope This Helps!

Dawn
http://www.swingtowns.com/

Only if she wants to.

The question is not "should", but "would".

I would, and I will, at some point.

If you feel like it, go ahead!

Hell yah!!! If its what you want then go for it ... its not like if men are the only ones aloud to have fun

I think every woman ought to at least EXPERIENCE a MFM threesome just to see what it's LIKE ! Most women who say "no" HAVEN'T ever experienced one - so they have NO IDEA of how PLEASURABLE it can be ! I would LOVE to do a threesome with my wife and another guy - she's reluctant to DO one - but I am CONVINCED it's only because she doesn't realize how much PLEASURE she'd derive ! She's VERY passionate sexually - she's capable of MULTIPLE orgasms - and when she gets really turned ON she can go at it for HOURS ! I would LOVE to have another guy ( or SEVERAL other guys ) join me in pleasuring her when she gets in the mood to go at it for hours ! Instead of me having to try to pleasure with her dildo while I'm recovering from getting off she could still be getting some REAL cock pleasuring her ! If she REALIZED how pleasurable that would be for her she wouldn't hesitate ..

of course you should but always remember that if one of the guys happen to be your longterm partner he may have 2nd thoughts after the passion is over. he may not trust you especially around the other guy and it could hurt your relationship. it did mine.

I think it really depends on the person, and the person you are with. I would not recomend it if you are in a serious relationship. It can cause a lot of harm to the relationship in the long run.
If you are not in a long term relationship and you have your mind set on it, and know the emotional risks involved, then I would say go for it.
But dont do it just to please someone.. you have to really want it yourself if not it causes to much problems down the line.

My boyfriend wants a 3 some....with another woman..does that mean, hes not satisfied with me? Or just a freak? I am not bi..and really have had no fantasy about it..what do you think?

Yes...with another woman, and me.

naw - leave all that up to the professionals - its not what its hyped up to be

yeah if that what you want really think about it and if you still want to go for it.

I've had my share of threesomes and more and I say a woman should definitely have a threesome. It's an awesome feeling having two guys at once. If you mean a guy and a gal, I'd still say go for it (although I haven't done that yet - I sure would give it a go for the right couple).