ANSWERS: 8
  • Make an excuse to use his cell phone and pretend like you stumbled on to the texts. Ask his casually so that he thinks you are not accusing him of anything. Because after all you have no solid proof that he is upto something. You should have a gut feeling about all of this and usually our gut feelings are right. If he is very defensive when you confront him I would say there is a need to worry.
  • Same answer I gave the other girl: Dump the chump. And, get some self-respect. Don't let guys walk on you! If he doesn't want you to walk beside him and be 100% partners with you, forget him. If you don't respect yourself no one else will.
  • I'd be very suspicious. You need to ask him .. if you listen to your intuitive instincts you will know whether or not you can trust him. If your gut says no - dump him. Don't let anyone treat you like a doormat you deserve better
  • Well the relationship is probably going to end now anyhow. You have trust issues, obviously by having to sneak through his things, plus finding something, and now he's not going to trust you either since you broke his trust by going through his phone. I had an ex go through my phone and msn history after I broke up with him (living with him) and he found things he completely took out of context because he was upset. It's not healthy for you, or the relationship, to sneak looks at things like that. Get out of that relationship and work on your trust issues and finding someone you trust.
  • oh girl i am in the exact same spot right now and asking that question is driving me nuts!!! "what exactly is he hiding from me?" because really, it is natural for us to be even more curious when our bfs hide things. . . . he tells me that he just wants his privacy and is uncomfortable about being "monitore" but phlease. . . i also have a gut feelin that he's nit being 100percent honest about that. trust issues? i really don't know. :( my girl intuition tells me otherwise.
  • Well... I went through something similar... he may not think anything of it... my bf had a female friend that would send him pics and i found out i took it way the wrong way but there was nothing going on. i dont what ur guys texts are saying but unless its totally inappropriate... i would talk with him about it.... trust issues can be worked through im proof of that.
  • The fact that you felt like you needed to look through his cell phone tells me that you don't trust him. You should have dumped him at that point. You don't have any business looking in his cell phone. You voilated his boundaries and you are feeling justified to do so because you now have evidence of something. It really doesn't matter what is or isn't in his cell phone if you don't trust him. Dump him and move on.
  • omg r u serious, ok wut u do is just send it to ur fone n b like y'd these send 2 my fone, thats weird, oh n it says its from ur fone, y'd u send me these n he'll b like i dident send that then thats wen u go ha i new it were over loser then get all ur stuff n say have fun with that tramp, i hope ur happy u ungrateful little prick! then u will be happy nowing dat u dont have to deal with that bs

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