by bstdmbcrpntr on January 1st, 2007

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I know a girl that works in a restarant i go to we talk some but shes so busy.i would like to spend some time with her what do you think if i left a busness card with her tip with a note on it saying lets get togeather sometime,ladies answer only please.

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by beenaroundtheblock on January 1st, 2007
I don't know, it's kinda too "cool", the distant kind. Even if she's interested, she's the only one left risking, puts her only on the spot.
I would rather you look me in the eye and say, "I really enjoy talking to you and I sure would be honored if you'd join me for dinner sometime. (Pause, if she doesn't say a quick yes), Listen, you don't have to say right now, I'll leave you my card and why don't you give me a call if you'd like to"
Well I hope you find an answer that works for you. Good Luck!
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- Nice, i like this idea a lot.
  
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by Anonymous on January 1st, 2007
This happened to me, but i had a boyfriend at the time and my customer never came in again (i felt very bad!). If you could speak to her boss first (when she is not there), to check if it is appropriate first, that would be nice, and then leave your message, but do not be too forward, as that can be a bit scary when you do not know someone. Good luck :)
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by Ezzy on January 1st, 2007
Yeah it could work, make it sweet though, you know what I mean?

maybe you could leave it with flowers?
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by Junk Yard Dog on January 1st, 2007
Ask her flat out for a date. The worst she can say is no. I frequent many resturaunts and have also worked at a few. I know for a fact that the waitresses are there for the money not the dates, but there are exceptions. DO NOT try to corner her at her job, this will backfire. Start leaving her good tips so she remembers your face being associated with a positive action (good tipper). Then if by chance she is interested in you, she will take the time to show it. I'm not a lady but I have dated, worked with, and known many waitresses in my time. The card may be "too upfront" to fast, unless she shows signs otherwise.
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- I'm also a guy but I was thinking maybe he could try and catch her at the end of her shift or something? Maybe if he could bring up in casual conversation to find out when her shift ends and then try to kind of wait outside for her. This is really tough though because I myself have seen many very cute waitresses at resteraunts and I've always been curious as to how I might be able to flirt with one and maybe ask for a date without as you mentioned "cornering them at thier job"
  
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  by Valparaiso on January 1st, 2007
- Before asking what time they get off, test the water by seeing if she's interested. Otherwise you might spook her into having a manager escort her to her car after work. All she wants to do after her shift is go home, not get harrassed by annoying customers. Not trying to sound too crude, but she IS her own person just trying to make it in a "man's" world, and as a waitress, getting paid like an Asian sweatshop worker. Don't add insult to injury.
  
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  by Junk Yard Dog on January 1st, 2007
- Yeah I understand completly I know after I get off work all I'm thinking about is getting back home. But what do you think would be your suggestion, say you have a waitress, she's waited on you several times and you think she might be interested but how do you go about doing it? I mean asking for any contact information such as E-mail or phone might as well be the same thing as asking for a date. The whole quandry is, how can you talk to this girl outside of her workplace where it might be more confortable for the both of you. Perhaps maybe a waitress could answer this?
  
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  by Valparaiso on January 1st, 2007
- Perhaps maybe THE WAITRESS in question could answer you best, ask her if she might want to meet up for coffee later or something.....(I hope it's not my girlfriend you are talking about hahahaha)
  
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  by Junk Yard Dog on January 1st, 2007
- No actually I don't have a particular person in mind, I just see a lot of cute watresses at at this point I don't personally know ANY girs that are single and my age. So if there actually are girls in my town that are single and my age well I think I want to get to know these girls.
  
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by Wendora on January 1st, 2007
Watch the movie "Office Space" and see how Peter approaches Joanna. I think the business card approach would be very "unpersonal" and a bit aloof.

However, if you are married, you should leave the waitress alone.
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