Hi, I'm only 17 almost 18 and a guy. You saying you make all the effort for this realtion like he is not trying anything. Does he call or text you. Does he say he loves you when you do see eachother when he or you have to leave? Do something unexpected but not something that will scare him to death. Hope it all works out. Oh and b4 you say it I know I know nothing about anything.

You don't tell us how young you are. I'll make the assumption you are an adult. PLEASE keep in mind I DO NOT mean to hurt you or offend you. WARNING! The following answer might help you to wake-up! I don't mean to hurt or insult you. COME ON! Wake up and smell the coffee AND the roses! I really can't think of a way. You were part of that old game, "Catch and Release". He already got what you were so willing to give up - yourself. You already demonstrated how well or not-so-well you can or won't perform. You're "another notch" in his male organ. There really isn't anything else which interests him. There are other ways to forget about him and move on. He gave you a hint. Take that hint and run with it. You deserve better than that creep! You don't have to put up with that garbage! You don't give us your age or what kind of work you do. I'll give you "the adult version" of what to do. You'll know which sections apply to you. The first suggestion I'm making WILL HURT LIKE THE DEVIL for a few weeks or months - maybe longer! THE ONLY suggestion I can make is to forget about him and move-on! DON'T you dare sit home on Friday, Saturday or any evening waiting for him to "throw you a bone"! GET OUT of that mindset and that environment! Due to the fact many folks have the ability to do the following things I don't think there is any reason you shouldn't have someone in your life to: 1) Properly communicate with you; 2) AND give you respect, dignity, honor and eventually the love, you deserve. Here's how to possibly meet someone better: If you go to church, temple or mosque on a regular basis and no one there seems to interest you, find-out when social functions are being held at another church, temple or mosque and attend functions there - at the second or third church, temple or mosque of the same denomination. If you have one or more hobbies or outside interests such as fishing, knitting, computers, cooking, baking, etc., find a club or group in your area with people who have the same hobbies or interests. At your work, ask about professional organizations, which you can get involved with and participate in. Find a worthy charity and on a regular, dependable basis - just as though it was a second job - do volunteer work for that charity. Wherever and whatever it is, within a reasonable travelling time and distance from your home or work, ask about, JOIN, PARTICIPATE AND BE ACTIVE! "The powers that be" and many caring, loving people - the folks you may be hoping to meet and "rub elbows with" and get to know, are those ladies and gentlemen doing volunteer work at hospitals, nursing homes, worthy charities and causes. When you do volunteer work on a consistent, dependable basis, your ability increases, your horizons expand and meeting that "special someone" AND possibly "climb, up the social ladder" could be greatly shortened and you could be recognized A WHOLE LOT SOONER. Are you self-conscious or shy? Go on-line and do a search about being more outgoing and an extrovert. There may be a solution to your situation: It's NOT inexpensive ("cheap"). It requires YOUR dedication and complete cooperation. I attended one of the world's leading public speaking classes on two different occasions AND I was a "Graduate Assistant" ("G.A.") once. There were folks of all kinds of backgrounds, cultures and ethnicities who attended those classes. There may be classes in your particular area of within 20 to 25 miles of where you live and work. Those classes WORK! If you are in school, look into a public speaking club or the debate team. LAST, but certainly not least: JOURNAL EVERY DAY. Write down things - on your computer: Thoughts, questions, things you learned and were taught, lessons you learned, things NOT to do, comments, books, etc. It's not hard. THE HARDEST PART IS GETTING STARTED - THEN CONTINUING! Thanks for asking your Q! I did my best to answer it. I hope the information helps. VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: Some personal observations and opinions. Graduate of one of the world's leading public speaking courses. See my profile about the one I attended. Two days each week I volunteer at Magee Rehabilitation Hospital, 1513 Race Street, Philadelphia, PA. 19102-1177 "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons".

Well I'm sorry I didn't comment you but the darn site wont send me my confermation code, well sinces its only been two weeks I dunno what you could do, your a women and I'm a guy, I would say guy things to do. Like what would you do if you wanted to surprise him? You know of anything he likes or likes to do?

If you want a guy to stay interested in you, don't have sex until you know this is the guy you want a relationship with. It sounds like both of you might have been headed in that direction, but maybe the sex was too soon and changed the "soon to be relationship". You want him to be into you and have a connection. Hang in there girlie!

You need to realise that not everyone we meet will feel the same for us as we do for them. It may be that he realises that you are not the girl for him but someone he could have sex with when he feels like it. Maybe your shyness is making him feel that you are not that into him. Maybe text him and ask him out and see what he says to that....