ANSWERS: 5
  • just be yourself, when i met bf i was shy around his parents and friends but now we all get on great.
  • um, the fact you have stated you don't know how to talk to him etc just states that you are still to young to date a 17 yr old. the maturity is just not there yet, sorry. i think the age gap is the problem here.
  • I am 17 myself and my boyfriend is 14 going on 15 and I find that many people dont like our age difference. His parents know me but they still thought that the age difference was wrong untill now that they have realized how much we care about eachother. Just be yourself and dont worry about it.
  • I think if you need to ask this question, maybe you shouldn't be with him anyway. You have to ask yourself what your reasons for being with him are. It's obviously not becasue you feel close to him, and safe around him, and like you can be yourself. Sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear.
  • "i dont really know how to talk to him or how to act around his friends or his parents." Honey, you don't even know how to capitalize your sentences. I'm guessing he is with you because you are adorable, and he is extremely attracted to you or? Men are visual- he loves how cute you are. We are a bit more mental (haha), and like sweet, funny, nice AND cute) in the guy. He is too old for you. I was 14 & couldn't understand what a 19 year old wanted with me. He treated me with respect- moving very slowly and not trying anything. Still creeped me out and I broke it off just after the first kiss. This day and age, you are likely flattered, but it's still not enough to sustain a relationship. You have little in common now, but the age difference will become less important when you get out of school. You'll be beginning high school as he begins college- or LIFE. I didn't allow my boys to date girls w/ big age differences- a 15 yr old chased my 18 yr old, and the 17 yr old was seeing a 21 yr old. NO! They are ok now, but fighting urges at your age is tough. I wish you well. PS> Do his parents really know how old you are?

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