I'm an emotional wreck, I'm pregnant, and I feel like everyone is against me, and everyone hates me, and no one can stand me, and no one cares for me. I feel like its always been like this, or am I imagining? Am I being weird?
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Trust me, i feel like that too, i'm 16 weeks pregnant...and I'm going through the stages of "do they hate me, do they want to be around me?"...and i talk to those people about it and assure myself it's not true...it's hormones hun :)...and we just have to deal with it and tell ourselves it will be ok, because it will :)
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Welcome to the wonderful world of female hormones. Don't feel bad, it's normal and you really are crazy, but the good news is that it's temporary. Learn to laugh at yourself and you'll survive it better.
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I dont know you but ill be on your side :]
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WOW, I have had three children and I never had hormone problems or morning sickness. Sounds like I have a lot to be thankful for. Good luck to you and remember it only last for 9mo!
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Let me tell you this... Pregnancy is an amazing experience. I think you need to pay more attention to what your body is doing rather than what others are doing or thinking about you. Love your child and make this a good experience for you! Eat chocolate it makes a happy baby!
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"Nah" your just pregnant.
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Dont worry sweety its just normal, change your mind by collecting clothes, make small things and set up a room for your baby. Go sit in that area and enjoy the feeling.
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Totally normal .. I was a complete emo mess during all 3 of my pregnancies. I'd laugh, then cry, then both at the same time .. You'll return to normal soon enough .. Hang in there sweetheart <3 ((hugs)) And congrats on the baby :)
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that is where the baby daddy should come in to support you in every way.
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I think it's normal. Your hormones are changing to accommodate the baby, and it's "messing with your mind". People are NOT against you, nor do they hate you. You may be more "difficult" to deal with, so some people may not want to "deal" with you, right now, but that doesn't mean they don't know that pregnancy is the reason. As for people caring for you, I would hope that 1) your husband/s/o does, 2) your family does, 3) your friends do. They may be worried about you, and you're translating that to not caring. It hasn't always been like this, nor will it continue. When you have gotten used to the hormone changes, and/or once you've had the baby, things will get back to normal. And no... You're not being weird, but you should talk to your mother, sisters with kids, s/o, and/or doctor about this feeling. I'm sure they can help you through it. And, "Postpartum" is what hits you AFTER the baby is born. This is just "being pregnant". Congratulations, and good luck! ;-)
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its normal, hormones are making you think this way
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No, I don't blame you for having these emotions. Please just abort the baby and save yourself. Don't bother having or loving this child; it will only eat your soul and kill your zest for life.
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Oh darling, you are not weird! You are just pregnant!
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Yes. I feel sorry for the new life your not ready to bring into the world. I suggest reading alot of information on care and emotional health for you and the baby, sounds that would make up for some of the wreck your feeling like now, and maybe help with the paranoid everyone hates me blah as well.
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You're just hormonal. It's normal. *HUGS*
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