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by Vaporeongirl on October 15th, 2009
I don't understand you lady. Don't you see all the wretched women in the world that have been slowly rotted and eaten by babies? Why aren't you happy that in your case the problem took care of itself? I don't get it, if I were you, I would have been thankful that the baby got rid of itself so I wouldn't have to bother. I'm NOT trying to be rude or cruel; I am on a mission for MYSELF to understand why a woman would ever care about something that is parasitizing her body.
by Thatguy on January 7th, 2009
God has a plan if you believe in that sorta thing. Im sorry for you. Talk to a paster at a church, even if your not religious he can help you feel better.
by LYNDA SAYS on November 11th, 2008
OK FIRST OF ALL I AM VERY SORRY THAT YOUR BABY DIED. ITS THE WORST THING EVER.I HAVE HAD THREE MYSELF SO I CAN UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL, ESPECIALLY TODAY WHEN YOUR BABY WAS DUE.NOTHING ANYONE SAYS WILL MAKE IT BETTER BUT YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY NOT COPING WELL AT THE MOMENT.I THINK IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE A WEE CHAT WITH YOUR DOC AND EXPLAIN HOW LOW YOU FEEL. THE WEED IS ACTUALLY A DEPRESSANT AND WILL MAKE YOU FEEL WORSE IN THE LONGRUN SO GIVE IT UP. IT ALSO WONT HELP IF YOU ARE TRYING TO FALL PREGNANT AGAIN. TRY TO TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND HOPEFULLY YOUR DOC WILL GIVE YOU A LADDER TO GET YOU OUT OF THE HOLE YOU ARE IN. EVEN JUST PUTTING YOU IN TOUCH WITH OTHER WOMEN WHO HAVE MISCARRIED WILL HELP BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLE DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY.HOPE THIS HELPS. XX
ive suffered from depression in the past and i think i might have postnatal depression but im not sure. more info underneath
by staffie on January 9th, 2011
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How can I help out a friend who has post pardum depression. She just had twinis and has a 6 year old and she is overwhelmed and says she can't do it.
by Anonymous on October 22nd, 2008
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What would be another word for over-mothering? Or a term for over-mothering regarding postpartum depression?
by mrs.ANONYMOUS on June 13th, 2006
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postnatal depression? info underneath
by staffie on January 9th, 2011
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Can anyone explain the psychology behind postpartum depression? (I don't quite understand it, but then again, I can't get pregnant)
by BobSaccamano-is-back on January 4th, 2007
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Did you have a bad childhood? No disrespect I'm just trying to understand you obsession with telling women/girls to get an abortion.
by jessalin on October 15th, 2009
I grew up in a Roman Catholic Cult where I saw women literally commit suicide having babies. I knew a woman that killed herself by having 11 babies in 14 years. Also, the 1s that didn't die from having babies, led terrible lives and they were bitter people. Also, I've never liked babies and I had abusive people telling me every day I was going to hell if I didn't want to have babies until I was either dead or wasted. So, 1 of my missions in life is to encourage abortions for all women and girls because babies are just weapons and tools that men use against us. Most women don't get that, I learn this sad fact at age 13.
by Vaporeongirl on October 15th, 2009
Oooooo! Do you mean you grew up in a compund like those Paligomists??? Did you have like 10 mothers and 20 siblings? Did your mother hate you for being born. You were a baby once so do you hate yourself? Sorry for all the questions just curious. In our world usually its the women that use babies against men.
by jessalin on October 15th, 2009
No, it was not a compound. My mother just homeschooled me and only wanted to hang around with a tight, little circle of sick catholics. I had no freedom, my mom was really controlling. She didn't want me to be around other kinds of people. As well, we went to a very conservative church for 4 years where all they ever talked about every week was abortion and contraception and how women who did those things were doomed to hell and going against God's plan for their lives.
by Vaporeongirl on October 16th, 2009
Well thank you for being so open. Just a thought I know you do not want to be like the people you grew up with so it seems like you should be the exact opposite of their beliefs but there is a very large grey area that is between the two extremes you seem to deal with. And the grey area still would make you an independent persons who owns and lives by her own beliefs, and is her own person. I realize everyone has their own opinions and missions in this world and that is great and I applaud you for having such a passionate drive in this world. However just keep in mind that as you grow and mature in this new world you may change, alter or tweak your beliefs or ideas. We all do and will continue to do so as life lessons change us. So keep in mind that your approach (at times harsh and attacking) to some of these women will fall on deaf ears. You may want to understand why us women CHOOSE to have babies but women may not be open to explaining this to you if you are always quick
by jessalin on October 16th, 2009
to say the abortion word. I agree sometimes there are reasons to do this but some people think of this word as Taboo. And may not listen to very very real point of view.Good for you for living a new life and not believing that what you are told is true is in fact the truth!
by jessalin on October 16th, 2009
Thank you for being kind and understanding, Jessalin. I wish there were more people in the world like you. You talked to me before judging me, that I appreciate with all my heart and soul. Will you honor my friend request?
by Vaporeongirl on October 16th, 2009