Prisons pretty much prove that almost all of us who are the least bit sexual are potentially bisexual. What you are not likely to "become" is gay or straight. You either are or aren't at the far ends of the bell curve. That said, you should probably think through the social impact if the fact became known. What effect might acting on this fantasy have in future relationships? Would you feel the need to sneak out and repeat it? Mighht you expose yourself to undue health and emotional risks? It's perfectly alright to have a wild fantasy that stays just that.

I think you are probably at least bi, if not gay. I do not buy that straight men can find "shemales", or more correctly "dudes with boobs" sexually arousing. In the EXACT same breath that a gay man is not attracted to female features....a truly straight man is NOT attracted to male features (penis) on a woman. I dont think it is at all unusual for a straight male to like anal play, there is a highly sensitive prostate there. But, straight men have their ladies strap on....and if they are straight that is exactly the porn they like...women with strap ons doing straight men. Straight men dont mind seeing penis in porn....when it is attached to a male that is putting it into a vagina. The whole, "bored with normal porn" also doesnt hold a candle.......there is soooooooo much freaky, wierd, fettish things out there that still involve vagina that I dont buy that argument for a second. So, where does this leave you?? It leaves you in an area of denial. A "shemale" is the perfect stepping stone for someone not ready to openly admit they are bi or gay. May be because of societal pressure, pressure from family, etc. But in the end, straight men do NOT find males with boobs sexually arousing. Like what you like, be with who you want, come out of denial, come to peace with yourself.

Thank you for your answers I think your right I am probably bi-sexual and I don't know what to do. I like woman to have personal relationships with but I seem to fantasize of both sexes but society would scar me if I came out of the closet for liking both so I am forced to just like the one I guess,. Thats probablt why I dream of shemales because they are in disquise. Really what I need is a hermaphrodite lol!!!

the problem with labels like bisexual or gay is that people are very complex, you can't define a complex and constantly changing thing with one word. just because you are attracted to shemales doesn't mean anything more then you are attracted to shemales, period. don't worry, be happy, live life to the fullest and have no regrets.