Scrappy you see it all wrong. Most people are out to make money and it does not matter what they are servicing to you it is about the money. The more expensive dating sites are expensive because they want quality people like 200 k plus jobs. They are all about filling their wallets but who is not about that in this country. You have to look at this way it is successful for some and those who fail usually it’s because of their own doing. It takes two to tango you cannot expect the web site to do it all for you. Some people like me, I do not drink or take part in the party scene so we cannot go into a bar or a club and find a girl some of us have higher morals that’s all. Walking up to someone can be hard because how do you know they are single? the best way is to find someone at College, work, or within a circle of friends but there is nothing wrong with searching the internet for someone who might just be only a few hours away that you would have never ran into otherwise.