ANSWERS: 8
  • It's bad when things like this happen, but they do happen, and this won't be the last time and it may not be the first. Only time will take away the pain, and the jealously will fade. You can do things to help, like trying not to think about it, or doing stuff to take your mind off it, call your friends, go out and have fun, maybe bigboss isn't too far off the mark if not a little forward. You will get over this, believe me, and you will also learn from this experience.
  • I went through the same thing just concentrate on yourself for a while. Try to put it to the back of your mind and don't blame yourself for his selfishness.
  • avoid situations where you might run into one of them. focus on your own stuff. get a new hobby, make some new friends, get out of town for a bit if you can. but mostly, patience and a conscious decision to move on - that's your best bet.
  • Breaking up with him was the best thing you could have done. By cheating on you, he showed no loyalty and proved he could not be trusted. These are key elements in relationships. From your admission you know you would not be happy with him anyway. It will take time to get over this. Just understand you have made the right decision by breaking up with him. It is a powerful and positive move that says you will not tolerate crap like that in your life. Do not blame yourself for his mistakes and feel jealous over his relationship with her. Instead, be happy that he is someone else's problem now and you are free to find that man you can be "totally happy" with. Good luck to you and stay strong.
  • Hi i am currently in the same position as you my ex cheated , howvere i knew he would never treat me well enoghh to be with him. I adored him but he could nit commit to me. He now lives with this girl and we only broke up three weeks ago , god it hurt me and am jelous to hell. But remember this its his own issues that will eat him up inside. And when your happy you will see that.
  • The best revenge really is living well, jealousy isn't about love, it's about self-love, so really love yourself and live well!
  • The same thing happened to me. It takes time to forget and you will probably never forgive. In my head I had imagined every intimate detail between them and it was torture! Instead take some time out for yourself. Spend time with your friends, shop drink go out and have a good time. Its not long before you get male attention and you begin to wonder why you ever liked such an idiot in the first place. Better still get a hobby- I learnt to snowboard!! Good Luck!
  • I was in the exact sitsuation. my ex cheated on me with this girl and they are having a baby now. i am now in a different relationship but i am still hurt by what he did and im jealous. I shouldnt be because i know i am better off without him (he has a drug problem) but i still loved him. This happend 9 months ago and i still think about him and how much he hurt me. The crappy thing is....his sister his my best friend and she is getting married and im the maid of honor and he is a groomsman!!!

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