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by sexyshy on December 28th, 2006

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My wife has never been able to come on to me sexually in anyway wot so ever, all love making has been instigated by me. if i dont start,sex just doesn't happen. she says that she loves sex and she never ever says no to me.why can't she seduce me in anyway

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  • by Redhawk on April 10th, 2007

    Redhawk

    Y'all need to have a nice LONG talk. Try fixing her a nice dinner, light some candles and explain lovingly that you'd really like to understand this matter and that it would mean a lot to you if she would assume some of the responsibility for initiating sex.

    Tell her you love her and she excites you, and you would enjoy KNOWING that she wants YOU enough to initiate it!

    If she says she has issues...then discuss what you can do together to help work through those issues...be it alone...or with a professional therapist.

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  • by I m Out of here on January 29th, 2009

    I m Out of here

    If she never says no, don't bitch.

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  • by 2POA's on January 29th, 2009

    2POA's

    She's too shy. Be glad she loves you and don't take it personally. Have a talk about it, but if it's just the way she is, it's no reflection on you - accept her like she is.

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  • by Lala Always on September 17th, 2007

    Lala Always

    We are taught as a lady we never ask! Heck wasn't too long ago we weren't suppose to enjoy sex. grrrr And her never saying no to you - well there's that "ole time raising" again - you never deny your husband what is his. I'm not saying she doesn't enjoy it once you have started it; majority of the time we do.

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  • by cellar-door on January 27th, 2007

    cellar-door

    Why don't you try asking her this? Make sure you don't sound angry or anything, but just say: "How come you never tell me when you want sex?" (it's probably better like that instead of saying, "Don't you like me? Why don't you want sex?" Because you know that she does actually want sex.)

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  • by RudyBox on February 15th, 2007

    RudyBox

    She might be either

    1. scared shit of digging into her own sexuality
    (and then she might need some councelling and a lot of patience and understanding from you)

    2. a lazy ass b*****d

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  • by tigueron on December 29th, 2006

    tigueron

    try role playing, you can initiate the thing but ask her to play a "bad" woman, see if she has cultural or emotional issues with this. Work on increasing her confidence and re-enforce her steps all the way. Make sure she knows what you like.

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