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  • You can't make him if he doesn't want to do it. But you should consider why he doesn't want to do it. Is it that he just doesn't like clubbing? If it were me, I wouldn't go clubbing with you alone, but that's just because I wouldn't go clubbing anymore under any circumstances--it's just not my thing. So, if it's that, I'd say just focus on doing things with him you both enjoy, and do the things you enjoy but he doesn't with your friends. But if he does like clubbing, you have to wonder why not with you? Is it because he only likes going along with big crowds? Is it because he associates clubbing with his guy time, the time he hangs out with his guy friends? Is it because there's a side of you that comes out when you go clubbing that he doesn't like? Or *alarm bells* is it because clubbing, to him, by definition can't involve your girlfriend because it's about flirting (or more) with other girls? There's nothing wrong with him flirting with the occasional girl, but if he plans whole nights of it, there is something wrong. Or perhaps there's yet another reason. Talk to him about it, that's my advice.

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