Nope, just drink the beer

Nothing is more important than my health and the health of the folks I'm with. Absolutely not! If nothing is done in a relatively short period of time, I approach the person whose home it is and I discretely say something to him or her. If nothing is done in a relatively short period of time, THEN I discretely mention something to the caterer. If I notice nothing is being done by any one, I tell the people I care about most - my family and others who I have a relationship with. Then I KNOW I'm going to dine some place other than where that reception is and where the risk of food poisoning is greatly reduced. If we are quite a way from town at a friend's estate or a remote location, I KNOW I would leave, get something to eat and come back. After the honeymoon, I MIGHT consider mentioning something to the bride and groom. Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! Graduate of the Culinary Institute of America, New Haven, CT campus. Was in the Food and Beverage business over 26 years. Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" Also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons".