by bobcat001 on October 29th, 2008

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Why will guys say anything just to get what they want? Ive gone on dates with so many guys and they say all the right things then in the end all they want is to have sex..... and when they dont get it they just go on to some other girl..... why?

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by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on January 5th, 2009
Not all men are like that. Those who do that sort of thing are slaves to their testosterone.
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- yes!they are immature.. They are not the right ones for you,Keep holding out till they want commitment through Love not sex..Try reading Men are from mars and women are from venus on a date ..It all makes sense! Good luck..
  
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by Blackberry. on January 5th, 2009
I think that is something younger men do, older men should have their priorities in order and sex shouldn't be the first thing on their mind. I'm younger and I just want to have fun without being tied down too much(and women like to do that), of course I have matured a little bit since high school. I won't say "I love you" to get sex or spend all my money, but when it comes down to it, I think it gets quite old to stay with one women as a younger guy when testosterone is flaring, and it is ironic because women just want to pick one guy and stay with him.
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by Gene H on January 5th, 2009
Whine, whine, whine. If I listed the times women have lied to me and taken advantage, why, you'd even feel sorry for guys. Just because you aren't real competent with them, doesn't mean they are all bad. Women aren't any better, anyway.
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by Sunshine on January 5th, 2009
Actually, I learned how to deal with this the hard way. Thank you Claude...

Here's the tip. Some guys WILL just try to use you. There are others who won't.

The trick is to hold off giving any sex out..A guy who really likes you will wait. One out for sex and to use you will give up after a bit and move onto easier prey...

I held out on sex with a guy I REALLY liked because I didn't want to move to fast or for him to think I was easy...He was a player and dumped me to get the town tramp so he could get laid....
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by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on October 29th, 2008
You need to date guys with enough maturity to recognize that a woman is a complete person and not just something to vent your testosterone on.
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by Mr_Natural Abstractor of the Quintessence on October 29th, 2008
Because it works.

Why do women want more than just sex?
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- I appreciate your honesty, it does work. However dont you think there comes a time in your life when you need to stop messing with someone's head and just be honest about it. Why lie, if you just want sex, say it. I know guys that do that. Guys that say they need to take it slow, guys that say they just need time. What the hell!!!!
  
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  by little sprout on December 4th, 2008
- I agree, it's not nice to lie about your intentions. If a woman admits upfront that she's looking for marriage or kids or a long-term commitment, I respect that and go away.
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  It's not that I'm looking only for sex. I'm always hopeful that a first date will turn into a longer relationship, but that happens so seldom I don't count on it. If all we get is a one nighter (or a week or a month), I do my best to make it fun for both of us.
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  I knew a guy who joked, "Sure, honey! I can commit! I can stay the night!"
  
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by Sir Ichabod Crane on October 29th, 2008
It's pretty simple really.Some men are morons.
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by Mephistopheles on October 29th, 2008
Pretty much. Guys are like politicians, they'll say anything to get in your pants
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by happiness on October 29th, 2008
You hang out too much with the wrong guys
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- it is a phycological mind process that is deeply related with the pleasure involved. they are addicted to the pleasure taht is gained from the "reward" that is involved.It is a negative pleasure it is a "cure" for their problems. now guys arent the only one who "will say , do , anything they want. not just with sex but with money or social gain.
  
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by frequentuser on October 29th, 2008
Because most of the time, that's all woman are useful for.
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- Oh, you are SUCH a jerk! How can you live with yourself?
  
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