ANSWERS: 4
  • No. A person's actions speak louder than their words. A liar is a liar.
  • It's chicken shit hair splittin. What they mean is, you're a liar. What they have the courage to say is, you're lying, but I'm not calling you a liar so don't be all mad at me. Oddly enough, I just ran into a fella who did this very thing. Passive aggressive behavior 101.
  • Yes, I buy it. A person and a person's single action are two completely different things. That's why if you are going to pass judgment on someone, then you should only do so on their behavior. If a man cheats on his woman once... many are apt to say that this man is a cheater and a dog. This hard and fast judgment wouldn't allow for the possibility of continuing with the relationship, the possibility that this was a mistake, the possibility that this will never happen again, nor will it allow for the possibility of the person being able to redeem himself. A man and a man's actions are two different things. They are not one and the same. You can, however, hate both the man and the man's actions.
  • it is a VERY INTERESTING question and thought. OK: I shoplifted 30 years ago in junior high....am I a thief? I cheated on an abusive boyfriend in my 20's...am I a cheater? I lied to my neighbor who is in terrible grief over a recent loss...it made her feel better and smile for a moment...am I a liar? I am not antagonizing you here, I am in total aggreement with your question, but I think that whatever we label someone else, we are labeling ourselves. We ALL do these things at one time or another in our lives..right? lying anyway.

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