by Teenamarie on October 27th, 2008

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My Brother's Wife just got up and left him with there 2 kids ages 1 & 2, she said she needed space because he needed to grow up...they are both young, early 20's ..she will not let my brother see his boys and said she is filing for Divorce now ...HELP?

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  • by George R. McCasland on June 7th, 2009

    George R. McCasland

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    I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.

    Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to do it.

    Part of the problem with getting your rights knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.

    Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a tablet and pen to take notes. It’s best to use a Court Watch Form designed for this purpose. I have one in the manual at Dads House.

    If the judge is not doing his job, using the info from this form, you can, appeal, and/or get the judge sanctioned and removed from the case. You file a complaint with the State Supreme Court at your state capital.

    Start keeping a daily journal of all your activities. The most common way to prevent a father from getting his rights through the courts is a false allegation, usually sexual. Over 60% of divorcing father are accused of child sexual abuse, of which only 4% are found to have any relevance, but there are no penalties for doing so. A daily journal is your number one piece of evidence in court and you can even refer to it while on the stand.

    Gather evidence. Check the site below to see if it is illegal to record conversations without the other person knowing. If your state does not have a law either way, than it defaults to the federal ruling which says one person in a conversation must know they are being recorded. You’re that one person. In Missouri it is specifically legal, in Kansas there is no mention either way. If you live in two different states, and one has a law against it, than it applies when the call originates from within that state,
    http://www.rcfp.org/taping/

    Now, you can't just record, you also have to transcribe it into the daily journal.

    If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, you will receive a link for downloading a free 200 page educational manual that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.

    http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/
    http://tinyurl.com/GiveKidsAChoice
    http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/
    http://www.parentalalienation.org/

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=27395259

  • by Cong on October 27th, 2008

    Cong

    Laws differ greatly from place to place, so there is no generic advice for your brother's situation. He simply needs to go see a legal professional to find out what his options are.

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