ANSWERS: 14
  • Can you define "casually hook up". I am not down with all this lingo.
  • Tell him to get lost.
  • I would feel used.
  • Well, if he really feels bad and didn't mean to lead you on, then I guess you have to show some forgiveness. but if its obvious that he's just saying it so he looks better then I guess, I guess, well you know whatever :)
  • I would say hes gay.
  • Well were you aware at the time that you were "casually" hooking up? If you were, than I would say he wasn't leading you on, and he's informed you of his intentions. It's up to you whether or not you're in a place in your life where you want this and it's acceptable.
  • At least he's honest, but if you have feelings for him, stay away from him and just try to get over him, if he really likes you, he'll come back to you and you can tell him he can either take it seriously this time or leave you alone. If you're just looking to have fun, then by all means take advantage of the situation.
  • He wants a friendship with benefits
  • Why buy the cow when you can get all the milk you want for free? He wants all the benefits of a relationship without taking the responsibilities of a relationship. Its a pretty selfish attitude and it says loud and clear that he doesn't value you or your needs at all.
  • Accept it and move on. F.W.B never really works, one person always develops feeligns for the other at one point in time. Honestly, if he wanted to keep it strictly on a friend level (and if you did too) that wouldn't have happened...although there are some exceptions (ex: feeling alone). (If this question is about you:)The thing is, it seems like you may end up developing feelings for him otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question, and if so, you're on the loosing end of the deal. Just be friends wiht him and have fun. Becuase if things go wrong it could put stress on the relationship. Try finding someone worth your time.
  • I think it depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for a long term relationship, I would say ditch him. But if you are just looking for something to pass the time until you decide what you are looking for then, I would say who cares. I assume though with you asking this question you are wanting more then just a once a week thing. **Don't forget your worth**
  • You should think what you want. If you can keep it casual too and if you feel that it’s just sex for you too. If you have feelings talk to him. You can not really call your ‘friend’ someone that you have sex with. Try to remember the first time that happened and decide if it was physical attraction or something more.
  • I was with a guy for 2 years and he kept saying just friends. I tried every girly way to get him they didnt work. I left the so called relationship with a broken heart and its been a couple of years and still not over it. I just wish i left earlier and still had my heart intact.
  • Well, what do YOU want? Do that.

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