by Jen-Jen on October 20th, 2008

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Would knowing that a person had or influenced a previous partner to have an abortion affect your opinion of them?

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  • by Rinky Dinky Do on October 20th, 2008

    Rinky Dinky Do

    No. That is a personal decision and absolutely none of my business or anybody else's

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  • by angelmommy on October 27th, 2008

    angelmommy

    Yes

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  • by The Fool on October 22nd, 2008

    The Fool

    Yes. Its says alot about them and their judgment.

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  • by Polar Aurorae on October 20th, 2008

    Polar Aurorae

    It would affect me if they had more or less forced the other person into an abortion against their will. Besides that, it was a mutual decision and I wouldn't care either way.

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  • by BeenThereWillShare on October 27th, 2008

    BeenThereWillShare

    Why should it affect my opinion? The law says it's perfectly OK
    (sarcasm)
    Another thing to think about: would someone admit it, even though it's supposed to be "perfectly OK"?


    As a matter of fact this has happened to me more than once. My "best" friend I'd known from grammar school had an abortion and even though I didn't say anything I could not feel the same way about her. She also changed, and I'm sure it was due to (unrecognized) guilt. What was worse is that she was married and when her husband found out he beat the crap out of her and left. Result: 3 lives ruined.
    We started hanging around less and less and she changed more and more. Then she just moved away and I don't even know where she moved to. Her parents wouldn't tell me.
    Now I feel sadness for her and know that she will have to suffer for the rest of her life.
    There's nothing you can say or do to take the life back.
    Another person I know has had at least 3 abortions and I just call her the red-haired bitch now. She gets pregnant to try to hold onto a guy, and when she tells him he dumps her so she kills the baby.

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  • by tomsims on October 27th, 2008

    tomsims

    No. I am against abortion, but I am not against the people who disagree with me or practice it. I wish they could see things my way, but I hold no animosity toward them. If we could practice more respect for other people, they might be more able to consider our viewpoints.

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  • by J and B on October 27th, 2008

    J and B

    Yes. For the better.

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  • by Robin on October 20th, 2008

    Robin

    lol we have so many screw ups here

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  • by singwell-is off researching a lot on October 20th, 2008

    singwell-is off researching a lot

    It depends on who they are now.

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  • by ThePrognosticAgnostic on October 20th, 2008

    ThePrognosticAgnostic

    Yes, for the worse.

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  • by iwnit on November 15th, 2008

    iwnit

    Many people don't talk about this, so if they tell me, I would take it as a sign of trust.

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  • by anonymous on October 20th, 2008

    anonymous

    No, it's none of my business.

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  • by Gingerminx on December 3rd, 2008

    Gingerminx

    No, it is their choice to make, their life to live.

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  • by Matthewisdom on February 15th, 2009

    Matthewisdom

    If they were sorry they acted like that and showed regret I would not hold it against them. If they saw nothing wrong with it, I would not associate with the "Manson Style Baby Killer"!

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  • by Tenaciouscj on December 3rd, 2008

    Tenaciouscj

    I wouldn't think worse of a woman who had an abortion if they had been pressured into it or didn't know any better but I would have little but disgust for a guy who'd pressured a woman into having an abortion unless he was sorry he did it. Ditto for a woman who used multiple abortions as a means of birth control. I wouldn't want to be their friend.

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  • by Steve on November 9th, 2009

    Steve

    Yes, it speaks to their character and disrespect for human life.

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  • by skluse on September 1st, 2010

    skluse

    yes it would...and it would end it.

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  • by angus1 on November 4th, 2009

    angus1

    Yes. I would know they have the ability to kill.

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