ANSWERS: 9
  • Please! You're a grown man! Take responsibility for your own actions! She didn't lead you to cheat- your pecker did. She's probably in a bad mood because she's married to you. Work on your marriage or do her a favor- get out and don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya;)
  • Cheating does not resolve issues. Counseling and/or communication with your wife is a better option.
  • Stop cheating and start caring about your wife yo...
  • Sure blame her for your cheating. Of course there is love there. I assume your lover knows about your wife and what is and is not happening in your marriage. She is feeding off of what you tell her and if she knows you are married i guess we know her standards are pretty low. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR WIFE. If you would not have skipped that step maybe it would not have gotten this far. Either you do that or you end the marriage before you have an affair. GEEZ. You know what you need to do, but you aint going to get any simply as you dug your own grave buddy.
  • To be honest, you don't sound like such a great husband yourself so you might ask yourself if your own actions and behavior isn't behind your wife being in a bad mood. Even though she may not know about your cheating, she will still know that you are distracted. I bet that you yourself are not such a great company to her either. What I think you should do is to work out your problems with your wife first, before you decide to take other actions (or not).. Did you ever ask her why she doesn't want to be around you anymore? Did you ever tell her that you feel there is no passion anymore? Or do you just avoid everything by escaping in a new girlfriend? Maybe your marriage is over, I don't know that, but you and your wife both deserve to at least being straight to each other about your feelings towards your relationship. There was a time where you loved your wife. Is that completely gone?
  • you should be truthful with your wife....when u see her tears fall then you'll know if it's really love with the other girl..
  • It is not my nature to answer questions harshly, but in your case I'll make an exception. There is no excuse for cheating on your wife. None. You can rattle off all of the reasons in the world, but ultimately YOU are to blame for your actions. You are responsible for being a MAN and either dealing with your marital problems or ending the marriage and moving on to something else. If you want to be with someone else, at least have the guts to be honest about it with the woman to whom you vowed to "forsake all others".
  • You caused yourself to cheat. Your wife had nothing to do with it. Cut the other woman out of your life. Block her number. Delete any pictures or anything you have of her. Go back to your wife and resolve the problems in your marriage. It sounds to me like you're ignoring your wife. That is probably why she is in a bad mood 'all the time'.
  • You caused yourself to cheat. It was a decision YOU made, not your wife. I'm not surprised that she is in a "bad mood" and that she doesn't want to be with you. She is probably very perceptive and senses or even knows that something is going on. Lying and cheating are definite passion killers where women are concerned. I feel for your wife. She deserves better, I'm sure.

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