by Indyla on October 19th, 2008

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If while my partner is away I indulge in a little mutual masturbation with a close female friend, am I cheating on him?

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by endowed - out on May 21st, 2009
I would have to say yes. While I do find it to be very hot and would love for my wife to do this, I would expect her to consult with me about it first. If she didn't tell me about it, she's hiding it from me. And the fact that she's hiding it from me is what causes the concern. Not the fact that she's doing it because I would encourage it. Just don't hide it.
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- while it is HOT and I would encourage my wife to bring home a friend, keeping it secret is not good.
  
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  by sprky777 on May 24th, 2009
- Hey, endowed, per YOUR comment to MY comment on Wisdom Tooth's answer. . . .here's some "points"! Glad we think alike! +6
  
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  by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on May 28th, 2009
- Well thank you. I have to admit I'm not sure which question you're referring to. Perhaps you can provide the link to the question?
  
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  by endowed - out on May 28th, 2009
- I'm referring to THIS question. You made a "comment" under Wisdom Tooth's answer; and directly under MY comment to Wisdom Tooth's answer (to THIS very question)!
  
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  by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on May 28th, 2009
- Oh I'm sorry man. I can't remember everything I've answered and commented on. When I go through the list of questions sometimes I have to make sure I haven't already replied to it.
  
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  by endowed - out on May 28th, 2009
- No problemo, endowed!
  
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  by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on May 28th, 2009
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by anon on November 12th, 2009
Tell your partner about it and invite them to join. You may be surprised that they would love to join you! And you wouldn't have to hide it from them anymore.
Keep us posted!!
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- No i wouldnt
  
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  by Indyla on November 18th, 2009
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by joebud on May 24th, 2009
Yep.. He's gonna be real pissed at you.... (straight face) Ok, Ok..... LOL!!! You have got to be fucking kidding me. ANY sexual act with another woman would be grounds for prayers of thanks giving and burnt offerings to the porn gods for finally answering the damn prayer...

OMG!!! If I found out my wife was having a little "mutie" with one of her friends, I would cream in my jeans on the way home and have to fix a sandwhich and get a beer when I got there. Holy Shit, If that could only happen to me..
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by love_master on May 21st, 2009
if you are hiding it from him then yes
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- while it is HOT and I would encourage my wife to bring home a friend, keeping it secret is not good.
  
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  by sprky777 on May 24th, 2009
- exactly, that is like every mans dream but doing it behind his back isn't good
  
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  by love_master on May 31st, 2009
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by stukn1986 on May 21st, 2009
if he dumped you for that he must be gay. I would have told you to bring her home with you
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  by anon on November 18th, 2009
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by kiwisoccer on February 3rd, 2009
Lol trust me most guys dont consider it cheating if their g/f does anything sexual with another women
And if your b/f is one of the rare guys who dosent like that, its not cheating as cheating is when you have anal,oral or peneatration which you havent done
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- My gf is a les who gave me my first sex lessons in the college hostel. I lost my virginity to her. We still meet once in a few months. I like it with her.
  My man found this out and has dumped me saying I am a les and i cheated on him.
  
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  by Indyla on February 8th, 2009
- Man thats hot i am going to have to go and take a very very cold shower now ;)
  Hey dont worry the guy sounds like a jerk if he dumped you for that, guys who get upset about that are rare but trust me there are alot of guys like me out there who would get turned on by that and would never consider it cheating :)
  
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by GibsonGuy on April 4th, 2012
I know this question has been around forever but it still deserves comment. I would not consider it cheating if my wife masturbated with a female friend. She doesn't need my permission either. I would enjoy having her tell me about it but it's her secret if she doesn't and I'm okay with that.
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by Anonymous on November 24th, 2009
I dont think it neccessarly cheating unless you are going behind his back and doing it. My husband knows I masturbate with other women and I always honesty with him. But if your are sneaky around with another woman and lying about then yes it is cheating.
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- you watch or do each other?
  
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  by sleepdoc on November 24th, 2009
- Mostly Watch but every now and then we do each other.
  
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  by Anonymous on November 24th, 2009
- Hmmmm
  
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  by sleepdoc on December 1st, 2009
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by funnyfarqua on November 24th, 2009
I don't think it is cheating if you let him know about it. If he is open-minded then there should not be an issue.
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by Wisdom Tooth on May 21st, 2009
With a woman, perhaps not.
Difficult to answer.
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- I vote yes! It starts in "the mind", then it's being acted upon; albeit, over the phone, it's only a matter of "time" before it advances to the next stage. Sorry! Thumbs down! It's cheating! If you CAN'T tell your "partner" about it. . . .then I'd suggest you're "feeling" the same way too, about it!
  
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  by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on May 22nd, 2009
- You've got a point too, Millenium.
  
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  by Wisdom Tooth on May 22nd, 2009
- Millenium, that's what I said. How about some points?
  
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  by endowed - out on May 24th, 2009
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by yanker49 on October 19th, 2008
No! You two are having fun. If you didn't engage each other than it's not cheating.
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by cooliokp on April 3rd, 2012
That is for yourself to judge. What do you masturbate to. Do you touch each other at all. I am getting a little wet thinking about that. I would love to send you a pic of me fingering myself if you want...cooliokp@yahoo.ca
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by sunshine on June 3rd, 2011
yes, let him join you
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by sunshine on April 21st, 2012
yes
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