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  • Look for whatever you want. Some people are looking for a marriage partner. Some are not. Don't base what you're looking for off what is expected or normal or you'll end up extremely disappointed. At your age I would just be looking for a like minded person who is fun to be with, ignoring marriage until later down the road.
  • At 19 and 20 you needn't be looking for anything other than mutual fun, getting to know other people and getting to know yourself. Yes, there are many people, young and old, who are dating in a frantic effort to find mr or mrs right. Avoid those people. Date with no end goal in mind. Be open to all kinds of people and experiences. Have fun.
  • You have to look within yourself for this answer. Are you just looking for someone to bump uglies with? Are you looking for someone to share your interests and inner most thoughts and desires? Are you in a position to take on the responsiblity of a long term relationship possibly leading to engagement and marriage? You need to do some self-examination.
  • It doesn't matter what other daters are looking for. What are you looking for? A life partner? Someone to just be with and have a good time with? Those are questions you need to figure out for yourself.

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