ANSWERS: 13
  • He's behaving like he is so that he can have sex with you whenever he wants as you don't seem to be laying down many standards for yourself which is very convenient for him. :(
  • because he likes her, he's getting free sex from you. Yuo take a backseat to his number one chick and you are there when he needs some no strings attached sex. He's basically using you. Drop him.
  • If you're having sex with him, I don't see why you can't just ask him yourself. Plus, from what I've seen, friends with benefits doesn't mean you're exclusive. He can go and flirt with whoever he wants, even in front of you.
  • i hate to break it to you, but he might be using you for the sex. he is liking that he can get that from you, but he is also working to win over this other girl. as long as he is getting sex from you he is going to keep you around, but i dont know that it means much to him. my suggestion would be to see if he still likes you after you guys dont have sex for awhile... then you could know if he is into you for you or into you for the sex.
  • B/c he's playing you. He is stringing you along. I've been there and it never ends up good. He might even become controlling or abusive, b/c you don't show him your values or that he should respect you. You are basically telling him that he should treat you this way.
  • He does this because you're dumb enough to still sleep with him. Stop sleeping with him, and he'll either come back, or walk away, either way you'll really know where you stand.
  • let me translate the meaning of friends with benefits: it means "youre a convenient place to get off, but i dont want you" Is this really what your willing to settle for? and at such a young age, what will you let them put you thru when ur 30? Love yourself more than this...PLEEEAAASE. you dont deserve this!
  • He's trying to see if he can get free milk from a second cow;)
  • sweetheart, you are being a doormat and that has got to stop. he is only interested in you for sexual gratification and as soon as the girl he actually likes decides to take things to that level with him, he will drop your ass. get some self respect and wait until mr right (rather than mr right now) comes along.
  • Agreed. Friends with benefits is never, ever a good idea.
  • Do not let a guy do that to you. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? He treats you exactly the way that you allow him to treat you....end of story. Stick up for your self and move one to someone who actually cares about you.
  • you're letting him... that's why. Step up... have some self respect
  • Isn't your body worth a bit more than what you are doing with it? It's yours for this whole life. Don't just throw it to anyone who claims to be your friend, or 'likes' you.

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