when you are seeking out unprotected sex from high risk people, missing work because you are off having sex, leaving your kids with just anyone so you can go off and have sex with someone new all the time that you really don't know that well..(leaving your kids with anyone you don't know real well is stupid and should never be done. Don't leave your kids with anyone other than someone who is capable of proper care of your child) lying to your mate and getting sex from several other people besides your mate. then that's a problem you need to seek out professional help with. Most times it's other things making you act out this way. For the most part I think we all are unique. We all are different in many way's.some people love sex other's tolerate it, some need it once a week, once a month, once a year. Other's need it daily, twice daily, etc. while for some it goes up & down depending on moods and living situations. You have to be honest about your level of need for sex from the start of a relationship. people vary in need. best to seek out people to be in a long term relationship that share in your love of sex or share in your feelings of once a month is fine for you feelings. Why set yourself up to just fail, cheat, hurt each other, and be a bad memory for someone when you aren't at all a bad guy or gal? you know what I mean? People have to learn to be okay by themselves first, know what they want, like, don't like, need, don't need first and then set out after that is known to look for suitable mates based on the things you've learned about yourself. Wasting time with MR. WRONG/MS WRONG is absolutely insane. Each person that comes our way leaves us with something, changes our thinking some usually about intimate relationships. Why let yourself be a dumping ground for ill matched personalities you've chosen just to not be alone while waiting for the right one to come along. Mr Right or Ms Right probably won't see you as very attractive being teamed up with someone who makes you act like a monster, a shit talker about your mate, or a cheater. And more than likely they might pass you by without you being aware they've walked into your life. More often than not you will find yourself getting in deeper and deeper with the wrong person making getting with someone who shares in your same thirst for things in life like sexual fulfillments and other things like it just as important but usually not taken into consideration when choosing who to get intimate with just to be "getting some" not at all impossible!! Or with a lot of things to get past first, an angry ex, kids from that relationship, money issues that complicate and start things off on the wrong foot. But in a relationship if both people are willing and wanting then there is never a time you could say that it's too much sex. At least that's my feeling on the subject.
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Well, I beg to differ. i have known someone for a little while and we have a "GREAT" time doing the wild thing we ain't married. marriage doesn't mean you cant have a good time with your partner as long as its protected and with someone you trust their should be no problem with it
by jacknutts on July 27th, 2009
So very true...
by Anonymous on August 14th, 2009
i agree sex before marriage is a part of life if you are with them and you trust them it is great for the relationship your well being and happiness - i have been with my partner for 16 months and we fuck all the time 2 time a day more if we can - we love each other and thats good enough - many people dont even plan to marry at all these days ...
by scatty_mini on September 17th, 2009