This guy is obviously got a thing for your friend BUT does he know she has a boyfriend ?? If he is aware that your friend has a boyfriend then is he really worth going for?? And as for your friend, I don't agree with how she is treating you. I believe that amoungst TRUE friends there should be a level of understanding and good communication. Your friend should be honest with herself and ask herself if she is truly happy in her current relationship. Don't let her make you feel that you are doing wrong by her. If I was you I would ask him out anyway. YOu don't have to answer to any one. Your friend has a boyfriend already. Follow you heart dear. Do you think your friend is treating you fairly, Will you treat her this way ?

They probably have something going on and since she is in a relationship she has kept it secret. Also this girl doesn't sound like a very good friend. Think about it, if she is willing to shower another man with her affection, while being in a relationship it means she is not loyal. And this would include you. Now she has actually proven this by not talking to you. And as for this guy, why would you want to be with a man who displays affection with someone who is in a relationship? It shows he cares about himself more than another human beings feelings. He is willing to accept attention from someone in a relationship so he will be willing to accept it from someone else even if he is in a relationship. Drop them both and move on. Look for a man that shows he want exclusiveness. And he will display this by how he reacts towards attention showered upon him. If he readily accepts it in such a cheap form, he will continue to accept it in a cheap form. We are all human and imperfect, however, there are character flaws that speak volumes of a person. And even though it is a flaw due to human imperfection, all flaws come with a consequence and there is no escaping that.

It seems like she just wants everyone for herself. It could be that she's on the verge of breaking up with her boyfriend to date this guy that the both of you like. I wouldn't want to date him anyway, if he's telling HER that he loves her. That's a bad idea because there would be jealousy issues if you and him were to date. My advice is to just let it go and let her have him, because he's obviously interested in her and she's obviously interested in him.