by Anonymous on October 15th, 2008

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Why would my bf tell me he fantasizes about other women when he's alone?

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  • by Brigid on October 15th, 2008

    Brigid

    Immature and thoughtless. Give him a dose of it and see how he likes it.

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  • by Polar Aurorae on October 15th, 2008

    Polar Aurorae

    Probably to antagonize you. I have a brother and about ten male cousins, so trust me when I say it isn't unusual. I hear them discussing that stuff all the time.

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  • by Bull wears a COAT of many colours on July 14th, 2009

    Bull wears a COAT of many colours

    Because he is an idiot. But, if you don't dump him, you are too and deserve the guy.

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  • by R-R on August 22nd, 2009

    R-R

    He's trying to prove he's honest, so you can trust his word. I did the same thing to my ex when I was cheating on her.

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  • by mydingdingdong on July 14th, 2009

    mydingdingdong

    honey he is obviously no good for you so you need to give him some if his own medicine than watch him beg at your feet while u leave him and move on to mr. Right

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  • by rabidpatriot on July 3rd, 2009

    rabidpatriot

    Because they all do or he's not that into you...I just watched the movie...forgive me for being so blunt

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on July 3rd, 2009

    Sheriff Raff  -Answerhag

    Because he is an asshole?

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  • by Kitten on January 11th, 2009

    Kitten

    He doesn't love you.

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  • by just_slightly on August 30th, 2009

    just_slightly

    cos hes trying to sound all truthfull and honest but is really being an ass..

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  • by limes'n'love on August 21st, 2009

    limes'n'love

    oh wow. because he is a jerk and is COMPLETELY inconsiderate of your feelings. i can barely imagine how that would make me feel.. alkf hahsdkf ;a;

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  • by mick on July 3rd, 2009

    mick

    It's his own strange way of trying to make you jealous. Possibly other women don't like him so he tells you his fantasies about them instead. Tell him yours, maybe he'll stop when he knows how it feels.

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  • by Zenless on July 3rd, 2009

    Zenless

    Well, you aren't so interested in him, only your fantasy of how he should be. He's being a little dumb, since he's being honest with you. You can't take it, you resent it, which shows you're more or less stereotypical. I can guarantee you he's being absolutely normal, except that he's being honest. He probably should lie to you more, so you will be more satisfied with his behavior.

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  • by BeautifulStranger on November 2nd, 2008

    BeautifulStranger

    He's a jerk, no excuse for this kind of behavior.

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  • by Shavale is very happy on October 15th, 2008

    Shavale is very happy

    Maybe he just wants to be honest with you.

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  • by Roaring on October 15th, 2008

    Roaring

    Ask him. Might be his fear of intimacy as his telling most likely will distance himself from you.

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  • by Dmitri on October 15th, 2008

    Dmitri

    He could be just trying to get under your skin, but then again, it could be his subtle way of saying he hasn't fantasized about you lately or even at all recently. Speculation . . .

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  • Because you are putting up with this insane abuse and he is preparing you for even more in the future. What other crap are you putting up with. You should not stay around long enough for him to finish the sentence.

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  • by 555 lol on June 9th, 2009

    555 lol

    coz he s honest and trusts u to understand, i think, well thats how i understand anyway

  • by malevolentbutticklis on October 16th, 2008

    malevolentbutticklis

    Did you ask him? Maybe he was just honest with you.

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  • by Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector on July 3rd, 2009

    Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector

    Most guys do. He's honest at least yo...

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  • by WhatusayJ on December 26th, 2008

    WhatusayJ

    because he's slow...hope you didn't tell him you fantasize about other men all the time ;)

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  • by -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....- on August 21st, 2009

    -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....-

    because he is very open and honest with you? or maybe he just has no tact and diplomacy - you decide..........

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  • by Trissinger on September 26th, 2009

    Trissinger

    Most men do, Honey. I guess he's one in a million who's actually being honest!
     
    Now, if he tells you this All The Time & is drooling ever so slightly as he says it, THEN I'd say you have a problem...

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  • by Anonymous on August 30th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Maybe he likes a variation of looks and shizzle?

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  • by Anonymous on August 22nd, 2009

    Anonymous

    because he doesnt have you there to please him. :)

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  • by tuscan121 on October 16th, 2008

    tuscan121

    My answer would be that he may want some reassurance from you, or maybe he wants you to say that you only fantasize about him. There could be a host of reasons, but the ones listed on this site are the most likely ones.

    Hope this helps.

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