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by buggie_4u on October 13th, 2008

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I caught my fiance texting with my best friend and on a few occasions it was over 100 times a day. I know that some of the text messages were inappropriate however they both say that it was all joking around. I do not feel like you can joke that way?

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  • by twinkle123 on October 13th, 2008

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    That's not right at all. If the messages are inappropriate they're either up to something or seriously considering it. My ex did something similar and I let him take me for a fool. Put your foot down and face this now, before it gets out of hand.

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  • by Kitkat on October 13th, 2008

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    They're trying to pull one over on you. You don't joke around with your best friend's fiance like that, and 100 text messages in a day is way too much. Plus it wasn't just one day. Don't let them pull the wool over your eyes. Something fishy is going on here.

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  • by Ms.A on October 13th, 2008

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    They're trying to pull the wool over your eyes.

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  • by hurt on May 28th, 2009

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    I caught my fiance and best friend texting how much they missed each other last night. They tell me it was because I get mad when they talk. When I asked my fiance to give me an example of when I had gotten mad, he couldn't (with the exception of the time I caught her hiding behind the bushes waiting on him to pick her up one night). I'm furious. Am I overreacting?

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  • by deidra on October 13th, 2008

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    That kind of "joking around" between the two of them is definitely inappropriate and suspicious. Find out whats going on because it doesnt appear to be innocent.

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  • by RainbowWishes on October 13th, 2008

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    I think that is going a bit far. There is no reason your best friend and your man need to be talking unless they were friends before you got together?

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  • by Mr n Mrs M... on October 13th, 2008

    Mr n Mrs M...

    No.. hes probably sleeping with her..

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  • by Teacup Chihuahua on October 13th, 2008

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    Doesn't sound like something I'd want to bring into a marriage. How would he feel if you did the same?

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  • by buggie_4u on October 13th, 2008

    buggie_4u

    Thanks I appreciate the responses. I just am trying to get them to understand that is mentally cheating and it is just as bad a physically. But they seem to think it is nothing. However you do not say some of the things that were said unless you actually want to do some of those things. You just do not say em as a joke.

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  • by Sweet T on October 13th, 2008

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    What is your question???

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